Be in love x Be loved

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Tawnik
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Apr 19, 2009 5:42 PM #401259
What would you choose ?

Votes are public, for some reason =D
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Apr 19, 2009 5:45 PM #401267
Being in love has its own worries of wondering whether they love you.

So... being loved.
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Apr 19, 2009 5:47 PM #401275
That's it, with both are something wrong, for example, you hate the only person that loves you..
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Apr 19, 2009 5:48 PM #401277
Being loved.
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Apr 19, 2009 5:49 PM #401282
Quote from Tawnik
That's it, with both are something wrong, for example, you hate the only person that loves you..


Yes, but that wasn't the question.

I could just like the person who loved me.

Usually I wouldn't hate the person who loved me too.
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Apr 19, 2009 5:52 PM #401288
Be loved.

It's easy to fall in love, but not necessarily easy to be loved.
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Apr 19, 2009 5:53 PM #401294
Wait.
Is it that i am already loved vs i am in love? Or which is easy to have?
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Apr 19, 2009 5:57 PM #401308
Being loved, you get a nice warm sensation when you think about it.

(oh wait, that's just because I reached my climax)
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Apr 19, 2009 6:46 PM #401379
The way I see it, you're screwed either way. If you're in love, you could love someone who doesn't love you back, which isn't too good of a feeling. If you're loved, you could be loved by someone you can't stand which would be annoying.
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Apr 19, 2009 6:47 PM #401383
Everybody wants both. The question doesn't have an answer imo.
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Apr 19, 2009 7:01 PM #401425
Quote from Gavel
The way I see it, you're screwed either way. If you're in love, you could love someone who doesn't love you back, which isn't too good of a feeling. If you're loved, you could be loved by someone you can't stand which would be annoying.


I always knew you were a great optimist.
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Apr 19, 2009 7:23 PM #401482
Being loved is the lesser of two evils
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Apr 20, 2009 2:50 AM #401845
Being loved, of course.
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Apr 20, 2009 3:06 AM #401862
I'd rather be in love. It would be a nice emotion and it would be a goal if the person doesn't love you back.

A stalking goal.
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Apr 20, 2009 7:44 AM #401952
Be loved.

I've gone through the pain of likeing someone who hates me and it hurt me a lot :(