"Those choices are taken from them too" Isn't a great way to describe it, seeing that their choices actually aren't taken away. Kids are still getting high, doing drugs, and getting drunk, even though there's a law against it... same thing with the age of consent being at an overly high age. They're going to get down and dirty anyways.
Not sure what point you're trying to make here, I already acknowledged that kids are going to do whatever they want regardless of the law, I was just saying those laws shouldn't be abolished on the grounds that "kids should be allowed to do what they want". On a general basis, the choices the average 14-16 year old makes are not very good ones.
Implying that having safe sex with an adult is as bad as doing illict drugs. Really; there's nothing wrong with it. Sex between a younger person and an older person is the same as a younger person having sex with a younger person, except the age.
You can't say there's no distinction between the two just because the act is the same. There's a massive difference
I'm acknowledging that if there's a circumstance that someone under 18 falls in love with someone much older than them, and they somehow have perfect judgement in what they're doing (not something teens ever really have but I'll run with it), then the age of consent laws are unfair. What you're ignoring are the countless sex offenders and pedophiles that manipulate people under the age of 18 into a state of mind that would cause them to want to have sex with someone they normally wouldn't want to. You can't say that doesn't happen, it's a known fact that it does, and you think there shouldn't be any legal consequence if they do it to a 14 year old just because their false judgement led them to say "yes"?
At the most, being "being taken advantage of" would only cause the teenager to regret having safe sex with the older man/woman, assuming both sides were willing at the time. This is no different than people of the same age getting drunk and having sex with eachother some night in a party. If this is bad enough to abolish having sex, why not do the same for every age group? Adults take advantage of drunk women at clubs and parties all the time.
..yeah, that's called rape, assuming the woman wouldn't have wanted to have sex with those men in a sober mindset. And you really don't seem to consider how negatively it can affect someone to be manipulated into having sex with someone twice their age, even if it doesn't lead to pregnancy or an STD or some other more obvious negative effect. I had a friend that was being used for sex by a 32 year old that she was convinced was madly in love with her, and she more or less shut down afterwards. I realize this can happen in the same age groups as well but there's no reason to think that most older men are going to legitimately love a child more times than they're going to prey on them and manipulate them for sex
Either way, this sort of case isn't particuarily common. I wouldn't assume that teenagers in the age group of 14-17 would be getting high, drunk, or in a state which makes them horny with adults besides the hoster's parents around, as clubs have age limits of 18 and older. The way most minors would get into a sexual relation with an adult would be if the minor saw an adult, saw him/her as "sexy" and opened the sexual relation his or herself, or vice versa. In either situation, both people are in perfectly sober states of their mind. Either one of them have the time to, and will think for at least a while before they went after the other.
I didn't really present a case, and your idea of a child meeting an adult and love blossoming between them isn't exactly common either.
Contrary to popular belief, teenagers are not stupid. They know what the ramifications of their actions could be the best they can without experiencing them his/herself. In school, they are constantly educated about AIDS/HIV and the importance of safe sex. They are taught about the existance of condoms and birth control pills. They are also taught about the consequences of teen pregnacy and how bad it could **** their lives up.
I'm not really sure how this applies to cases of sexual predation, which is the main concern for the age of consent
For the rest of your arguement. This scenario would be exactly the same with two 18 year olds. After the girl gets pregnant, even through the use of condoms and/or birth control pills, yes, she wouldn't have a case against the guy and her stupidity would have brought that on.
However, there is always last resorts for this. The daughter can either raise the kid willingly, give the baby away for adoption, or resort to abortion. It's pretty simple, and not all that horrible.
The case could happen with two 18 year olds, but which seems more likely, two 18 year olds falling in love or a 17 year old and a 40 year old? And like I said before, a person being used for sex, becoming pregnant and having to abort a fetus or give up a baby after 9 months of embarrassment among her friends is
extremely psychologically damaging. You make it sound like the thought process would just be "oh, I really shouldn't have had sex with that guy, guess I need an abortion". That could ruin interpersonal relationships for someone for the rest of their lives.
In the cases where the end goal of the adult is sex, that's sexual predation, and that's what the age of consent means to protect. I really don't think there are enough teen-adult relationships to warrant getting rid of any legal ramifications against those predators. And since you generally don't know until the damage is done, there's no reason to not assume the worst.