Personally, I wouldn't treat them any different, they want equality then I'll give them equality, I'll punch them just as I would a man if they tried starting some shit. In general I wouldn't hit anyone (Only time I've been in a fight was during sparring sessions that I've had with friends and my cousin) unless the situation was dire.
I've noticed in several women that they only get aggressive towards men because they are conditioned to believe that they can get away with it. They expect the man to back down so they continue to push their limits to see how far until the man cracked. When it came my turn, ah hell no, she wanted to start shit then she shoulda been prepared to get shit.
Use womens' boobs as punching bags.
no no no, breasts are delicate, you have to be gentle with em