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Nov 6, 2012 3:06 AM #779553
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Starting a physical altercation with people is not always a good idea since they might have something like a knife or several friends who are much stronger than you. Wouldn't it be a more permanent solution to make the idea of harassing other people just for the heck of it a very discouraged thing to do? This would cause the people who are too dense to realize that it is not a good thing to attack people for no fucking reason to be persuaded by peer pressure or something.

Completely encouraging people to fight back physically could actually make problems worse; I'm pretty sure I heard somewhere that *punishment* is not a very effective technique of persuasion.


physical altercations are always a bad idea. If you need to mess someone up, you do it when they don't expect it and you bring 3 of your friends. You jump them, rough em up plenty, then run away
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Nov 6, 2012 3:16 AM #779561
I see nothing wrong with teasing...i mean shit i used be bullied because i came to a new school and didnt fit in and till 7th grade i didnt (that was about 3 years of being teased) and i didnt go and kill myself...I mean its all about how mentally strong you are though...if your a little winy bitch that cant handle being teased (i really dont know how they would have friends then because ripping on friends for doing something wrong is funny) then you shouldnt be living in this type of society where alot of teasing happens on the internet (mainly Xbox from trolls)...But really words means nothing unless you make the words have a meaning...and yes that does sound cliche but its true...Amanda just didnt know how to handle being a slut and being called one...Its one of those things that people dont want to come to terms with and people are just saying what you are and not being able to handle the truth behind it
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Nov 6, 2012 3:39 AM #779582
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I see nothing wrong with teasing...i mean shit i used be bullied because i came to a new school and didnt fit in and till 7th grade i didnt (that was about 3 years of being teased) and i didnt go and kill myself...I mean its all about how mentally strong you are though...if your a little winy bitch that cant handle being teased (i really dont know how they would have friends then because ripping on friends for doing something wrong is funny) then you shouldnt be living in this type of society where alot of teasing happens on the internet (mainly Xbox from trolls)...But really words means nothing unless you make the words have a meaning...and yes that does sound cliche but its true...Amanda just didnt know how to handle being a slut and being called one...Its one of those things that people dont want to come to terms with and people are just saying what you are and not being able to handle the truth behind it

Instead of punishing burglars we should just let them get away and tell people to be less shitty at having their house not broken into. If you can't handle getting your house broken into then you shouldn't be living in this type of society where a lot of things are stolen.
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Nov 6, 2012 5:30 AM #779629
jumping someone is the gayest pussiest shit ever
though, i've never heard of someone that got jumped that deserved it, its usually assholes jumping someone minding their own shit.
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Nov 7, 2012 9:11 PM #781168
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Instead of punishing burglars we should just let them get away and tell people to be less shitty at having their house not broken into. If you can't handle getting your house broken into then you shouldn't be living in this type of society where a lot of things are stolen.

Actually in Chicago thats true...the burglars have more rights than you...if someone burglarizes my house and falls down the stairs they can sue me and win (cases like that have happened before) or if i shoot them or hurt them i get thrown in jail...so your point is invalid to all of people here in Chicago
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Nov 7, 2012 9:51 PM #781195
can we get back to the topic please... I used to get bullied in elementary school and 7gh grade, but in our society you just hit them and they immidiatly leave you alone... bullies are just pussys if you hit them right in the face they start crying
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Nov 7, 2012 10:07 PM #781224
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Actually in Chicago thats true...the burglars have more rights than you...if someone burglarizes my house and falls down the stairs they can sue me and win (cases like that have happened before) or if i shoot them or hurt them i get thrown in jail...so your point is invalid to all of people here in Chicago

That doesn't invalidate my point at all because what you just described is clearly *fucking stupid* and that was the entire idea of the post I wrote.
YOU'RE invalid.

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but in our society you just hit them and they immidiatly leave you alone... bullies are just pussys if you hit them right in the face they start crying

All of them?
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Nov 8, 2012 7:38 AM #781588
I've actually been bullied in my life but i was about to last year. Some guy 1 year above me barged past me on my way to class and started snickering, i called him a fat Swedish prick. Problem solved. I know bullying isn't as easy to handle as that but all i learnt is that it's better to deal with it when it first happens so they know your not taking shit.
But seriously i dont know anything about dealing with bullying beyond that. I've always been friendly to most people so i'm not really targeted most of the time regardless of my age.
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Nov 8, 2012 6:50 PM #781907
I've been bullied during half of my secondary school days but I kept sticking up for myself. People need to learn to do that or just rise above it. I mean I turned out alright even though I think about locking those bullies in my basement every now and then, but now I like people again.
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Nov 16, 2012 5:30 AM #788523
I've been bullied tonnes and it still carries with me sometimes. I'll often be walking down the street and feel as though all eyes are on me. I'm a guy, I shouldn't care what people think or whatever but bullying has a pyschological impact on you for sure. Earlier today I was walking down the hall (I should've graduated last year) and I heard someone say "fag" and I instantly assumed they were talking to me, they most likely were not, but all those years of being bullied really changed me....
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Nov 16, 2012 2:30 PM #788711
Bullying is what turn people into killers. You bully someone until they can't take it, they fight back and accidently kill the bully. nut they enjoyed it so they continue doing this to people who have done them wrong. Apex93 don't go down that line, there is no coming back from it.
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Nov 16, 2012 4:36 PM #788784
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Bullying is what turn people into killers. You bully someone until they can't take it, they fight back and accidently kill the bully. nut they enjoyed it so they continue doing this to people who have done them wrong. Apex93 don't go down that line, there is no coming back from it.


I'm going to go have to call bullshit on this unless you can find two examples.
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Nov 16, 2012 6:05 PM #788827
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I'm going to go have to call bullshit on this unless you can find two examples.


he probably is an example since hes a STRAIGHTKILLA
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Nov 17, 2012 12:19 AM #789206
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Bullying is what turn people into killers. You bully someone until they can't take it, they fight back and accidently kill the bully. nut they enjoyed it so they continue doing this to people who have done them wrong. Apex93 don't go down that line, there is no coming back from it.

I'm fairly sure that most people who kill others were already mentally unstable before they were harassed. For most people I have talked to about this, they don't feel the strong desire to physically hurt anyone, they just want out of their situation.
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Nov 22, 2012 5:10 PM #794584
well, im not sure that you should excuse killing people as being mentally unstable. Come on. They kill someone. no matter what the reason. they kill someone.

back on topic, I hate it when people think theyre better than me. That is mainly the cause of bullying and the cause of Nazism. Anyway, people call other people... words .... at my school and people just laugh at it. A kid in my school got so badly bullied (flamr knows who im talking about) he laughs when he gets essetionally, parred (is that how you spell it) and I ask him how can you laugh when you get insulted and he says, it was funny. he is almost immune to jokes. think about that