Tons of shitty advice so far. People are actually empathizing with him? Holy fuck.


Camila, the guy has some kind of mental disorder. I'm not being dramatic, his behavior is both consistent and extreme enough to be considered a symptom of an underlying mental problem beyond his control.

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I noticed that he messaged me each minute of the day. Sometimes I just couldn't answer because I have a life and help my family with things at my house most of the time, and then I received messages like "why you don't answer??? Don't you care about me?" I obviously replied saying that that wasn't true I did care about him and I just didn't have time to answer him, he was like this everyday all the day, 24/7. I was getting tired of it. Even when we played online games he just wanted to play with me and only me, and if I refused he would go all depressed like "why don't you play with me?" "your online friends are more important right?".

This is blatant emotional manipulation. Instead of respecting your personal time and who you choose to spend it with, he demanded your undivided attention and punished you whenever he didn't get it.

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He created an account here on sp only to send me messages, and see what I do, after a few conversations he said that he would commit suicide if I don't like him, he already tried to, and went to an hospital for not eating or drinking water (yeah he decided to "die" that way)

Do you have proof of this? Because I seriously doubt it's true. If he actually wanted to kill himself he wouldn't choose to do so in the slowest, most painful way possible.

This is blackmail, he's trying to control your emotions and behavior through threats of suicide and refusing to let you control your own life.

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then he said that he never wanted to see/talk to me again, so I stopped messaging him. After a few days he got all pissed cus I didn't message him, and used really harsh curses in his message.

He realized his previous tactics weren't working and tried something new - he thought if he cut you out of his life, you'd miss him and come crawling back to him. Once he realized it wasn't going to work he got frustrated and took it out on you.

I don't know how you can possibly continue calling this narcissistic, manipulative piece of shit a "nice guy". If he tries pulling this shit again call the police immediately. Until then at least get transferred out of his classes. This is something you need to take control of before he does it for you.

Hewitt, stop stalking Camila.

Edit: I agree with Exilement. However. A lot of people do the same thing that Exilement is talking about, so depending on his age I wouldn't consider it. If he's 16+ yeah he's probably got issues.

You're so adorable Arch.

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If he tries pulling this shit again call the police immediately. Until then at least get transferred out of his classes. This is something you need to take control of before he does it for you.

Running away from your problems usually doesn't solve anything. I agree on the he police part if things turn nasty, but at this moment he's just an childish heartbroken guy. imo Camila should at least give him some chance to look at her or something, maybe that'll ease his pains

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I agree with Exilement. However. A lot of people do the same thing that Exilement is talking about, so depending on his age I wouldn't consider it. If he's 16+ yeah he's probably got issues.

There's a difference between emotional immaturity and a clear, consistent pattern of narcissistic behavior.

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Running away from your problems usually doesn't solve anything. I agree on the he police part if things turn nasty, but at this moment he's just an childish heartbroken guy. imo Camila should at least give him some chance to look at her or something, maybe that'll ease his pains

If he became infatuated with her when they were just friends and proceeded to act like an emotional wreck whenever Camila resisted his attempts to control her, that's fucked up and you're an idiot for suggesting she should give him a second chance.

Oh no I agree completely. The point of my post was that I had the same behaviors as this kid literally to the tee when I was just starting out in high school. Now I'm a fucking poon hound off his leash.

>I started university, and I made a really good friend

Oh fuck, I should edit my post because it differs from Exilement's

Yeah you know what. That kid has issues :|

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If he became infatuated with her when they were just friends and proceeded to act like an emotional wreck whenever Camila resisted his attempts to control her, that's fucked up and you're an idiot for suggesting she should give him a second chance.

Not a second chance, just a small glimpse to soften his burden. Thanks for calling me an idiot though, real mature. I'm just trying to help :")

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Not a second chance, just a small glimpse to soften his burden. Thanks for calling me an idiot though, real mature. I'm just trying to help :")

:") you fucking bimbo

Buy a tazer, or some mace, or a pocket knife. Carry it around everywhere. If he tries anything, taze him in the nuts, spray him in the face with mace, slice up his hand a bit, he'll leave you alone right quick. If he tries going to the police, it was self defense. My sister was in the same situation, and I couldn't touch the kid legally because he'd already gone to the cops about me threatening him.

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Not a second chance, just a small glimpse to soften his burden. Thanks for calling me an idiot though, real mature. I'm just trying to help :")

Well there's a difference. She shouldn't give him a second chance at being friends. If she's going to talk to him at all it needs to be brief and only when she has too. The guy is emotionally unstable.

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Well there's a difference. She shouldn't give him a second chance at being friends. If she's going to talk to him at all it needs to be brief and only when she has too. The guy is emotionally unstable.

Arch-Angel is right here.
Talking to him and being friendly again is only going to give him the image that she's given in and has decided to love him, and it's not only going to bring back up his infatuation, but it's going to worsen it.

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Oh fuck, I should edit my post because it differs from Exilement's

oh fuck, exilement disagrees with me, better act like a petulant little bitch instead of responding to him