I couldnt figure where to put this post so I put it here.
My girl said "give me some space" when I was trying to call her like, the whole day.
i know you guys have an answer. please help me.
and looks like I did something so wrong and so bad

She means "don't spend the whole day calling me. It's not a life-threatening situation if I haven't spoken to you for two hours".

You have to give us context. Tell us about your relationship with this girl. How long have you been going steady etc.

"Give me some space" could mean many things and we can tell you so much more insight.

But right now, all we can really tell you is she literally means you stop calling the fuck out of her for the whole day.

You may or may not have bad breath. Or you forgot her birthday. Or you didn't pull out.

Whatever else it maybe, I think it'd be wise to stop annoying her.

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You have to give us context. Tell us about your relationship with this girl. How long have you been going steady etc.

"Give me some space" could mean many things and we can tell you so much more insight.

But right now, all we can really tell you is she literally means you stop calling the fuck out of her for the whole day.

I can't tell our status right now. its kinda complicated. but from what you said, I did tried to call her like a thousand time like from yesterday to today. so yeah, I figured you were right, hewitt.

And Zed: yes, now I know that what you said is exactly what she is thinking. "Dont spend the whole day calling me". yep. that's it. now I know what that means, I don't know what to do next. should I wait for her to text me again? or should I apologize? or what?

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I can't tell our status right now. its kinda complicated. but from what you said, I did tried to call her like a thousand time like from yesterday to today. so yeah, I figured you were right, hewitt.

And Zed: yes, now I know that what you said is exactly what she is thinking. "Dont spend the whole day calling me". yep. that's it. now I know what that means, I don't know what to do next. should I wait for her to text me again? or should I apologize? or what?

I think you should give her a space today. And then apologize tomorrow.
Or you can just say sorry now and bug her even further. And break up.
Noooo ;-;

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I think you should give her a space today. And then apologize tomorrow.
Or you can just say sorry now and bug her even further. And break up.
Noooo ;-;

the second option was what I did oh god, I just did that before even posting this thread! I did said sorry after she says she needs some space! oh dear...
Will that just cause more problems to both of us?

Or you can leave her hanging, like Triss.

Oh Hewie, but you're my girl, aren't cha?

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the second option was what I did oh god, I just did that before even posting this thread! I did said sorry after she says she needs some space! oh dear...
Will that just cause more problems to both of us?

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Well, you could just be silent right now, and make things awkward like an overprotective boyfriend.
Or make excuses (lies) that other people are hijacking your phone.
Or you can just text her, and then say that you will leave her alone for a while.

You're probably being super clingy. If you're calling her thousands of times (I know it was an exaggeration) and she's purposely not picking up the phone, seriously just stop after the third try or so. If I was her I'd be creeped out by all those calls.
I dont want to make any assumptions, but do you also try to see her a lot? Like every day or 2nd day, as much as possible? (disregard the following text if you don't) I know its wonderful to spend time with your girlfriend, but they have lives outside of you too. You should try to do the same. Girlfriends can't be someone's only source of that kind of happiness, or else it's possible you'll be asking for more of it than she can give you.

Do what she says and give her some space. Wait a day or two and apologize if you want to, and tell her that you'll try your best to not be so clingy.

IMPORTANT: If you feel like your girlfriend makes you unhappy because she doesn't want to talk to you as much as you want to talk to her, or anything else that makes you feel like you're inadequate or not good enough... seriously, drop her. Find someone who wants to call you a thousand times a day and see you as much as they can. It's not worth it to stay with someone who you aren't happy with.

^Sage advice from our Score Attack Champion

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You're probably being super clingy. If you're calling her thousands of times (I know it was an exaggeration) and she's purposely not picking up the phone, seriously just stop after the third try or so. If I was her I'd be creeped out by all those calls.
I dont want to make any assumptions, but do you also try to see her a lot? Like every day or 2nd day, as much as possible? (disregard the following text if you don't) I know its wonderful to spend time with your girlfriend, but they have lives outside of you too. You should try to do the same. Girlfriends can't be someone's only source of that kind of happiness, or else it's possible you'll be asking for more of it than she can give you.

Do what she says and give her some space. Wait a day or two and apologize if you want to, and tell her that you'll try your best to not be so clingy.

IMPORTANT: If you feel like your girlfriend makes you unhappy because she doesn't want to talk to you as much as you want to talk to her, or anything else that makes you feel like you're inadequate or not good enough... seriously, drop her. Find someone who wants to call you a thousand times a day and see you as much as they can. It's not worth it to stay with someone who you aren't happy with.

We are at a Long distance relationship

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Oh Hewie, but you're my girl, aren't cha?

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Well, you could just be silent right now, and make things awkward like an overprotective boyfriend.
Or make excuses (lies) that other people are hijacking your phone.
Or you can just text her, and then say that you will leave her alone for a while.

the 1st option; will not do... ill never do that.
2nd option; nah, she knows its me, really
3rd; that will do.


thanks a lot guys. i know what to do now. well 80% know what to do

*She...or he. I wont judge.

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3rd; that will do. Thanks a lot guys. i know what to do now. well 80% know what to do

Throw in an apology for bugging her that whole day and you'll be at 90%.

The thing is
What problem is she having? Just ignore her until she is interested in you, depending on the problem she is having.