So then you do realize that everyone on this thread then hates me right? If even you have to tell them to lay off then why am I even replying to this? Why tf am I here? I CAN'T ANSWER THAT. Iv'e dealt with loads of shit and I had to reply with loads of shit, I thought everyone would be better off without me. Yet I get like 6 pms if I want friends and im just like wtf who are you people..
Shadowmirror : Updates
One win added!
Ergos is part of the Sanctuary now!
It's like I'm fucking second class and I have to be below the fucking belt since I lost a match and haven't won one yet. Like, I had to deal with all this shit, and now this!! It's like this guy is happy I lost and that I should die in a fire, LIKE, IDGAF IF YOUR IN A FUCKING SANCTUARY?? DOE'S THE FORUM HAVE A FUCKING SANCTUARY I DON'T KNOW ABOUT? WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS SHIT?!?!
So then apparently I'm not part of this "sanctuary" you speak of? Wow, that's good to know, seeing that I a'm just your average piece of shit walking on the street, challenging LEGENDARY FIGHTERS LIKE YOU TO BATTLES THAT I KNOW IM GOING TO LOSE. Why not just send me to hell everyone!
I hear you, don't worry. Let's just begin by calming down and looking at this from a more sober perspective shall we?
If you are concerned that everyone hates you, it's not so much that as it is that there are just a few out there who would wish to ridicule your behaviour. Something I disagree with on the notion that such a thing should never be done. It might be true that some people already dislike you, but that is nothing that can't still be helped. Some people just take your behaviour the wrong way and it turns out bad for everyone, but it's really mostly based on misunderstanding.
About those people who contact you asking whether you're okay, we still have quite a few nice people out there and if they see people explode like this, or if they see such a poor introduction into the community, they simply get concerned.
Now, about the whole deal with Shadowmirror and the Sanctuary, it rewards to just look at the things calmly. The Writer's Lounge encompasses more than just the wRHG characters and wRHG battles subforum. It also has the wRHG clans (and Olit) sections. 'Sanctuary' is nothing more than a clan started by Kamiroo_Wolf that shadowmirror asked to become part of. It had nothing to do with either of your battles, nothing to do with the fact that he won or lost. He simply asked Kamiroo if he could be part of it, after which I assume Kamiroo had him write a little 'tryout' so to say.
It is NOT some sort of special tier that you become part of after winning one. And even if it was why would you be so upset about it? Just be glad for Shadowmirror, accept that it was a fair fight but it has been fought already and it's time to move on. There's plenty of other people to challenge. Sure, it might take you a few challenges to finally get a hold of someone but you'll find someone eventually.
Shadowmirror is not by any means fiendishly glad that you lost, nor is he gloating with his win. Nowhere is he insulting you or saying you should die in a fire. He's minding his own business just like you should.
It's important to get along with one another here. We fight battles, and more often than not there's a winner and there is a loser. No big deal, the battle's are supposed to be fun and a loss is just another opportunity to learn. One can learn more from their failures than they can from their successes, given that they are willing to learn. Just go back to your previous battle, try to figure out what went okay, what went good and what went bad. It's fruitful to read the CnC others left you too, they put in a lot of effort into helping you so it's nice if they see that you appreciate that.
So again, nobody here is gloating, we all just really want the best for each other and if you lose just call it a fair fight and move on. As long as you're willing to improve you'll continue to fare better with each battle. A lot of good writers here are sitting on only a small positive amount of or negative amount of wins. Malacal is a good example of this. He stubbornly kept challenging people better than him, and he became pretty good. It's just a shame that he's kinda faded away due to real life issues, but nevertheless his record stands.
So truly Najenda, just go about it calmly and you'll fare decently here. I certainly appreciate that you at least bothered to respond, and I'm also glad to see that it went without insulting me, so that's nice.