Edit: This was directed at likwid metal. Flood managed to ninja me in the hlf hour it took to find and type the quote.
Greg Wilhoit and Coleman had become friends, though they argued bitterly over the death penalty .
The Row ws quiet and heavily secured the night Coleman was executed. The circus was outside the prison, where the press counted down the minutes as if a New Year were approaching. Greg was in his cell, watching it all on television. Just after midnight, the news arrived - Charles Troy Coleman was dead.
Several inmates clapped and cheered; most sat quietly in their cells. Some were in prayer.
Greg's reaction was completely unexpected. He was suddenly overcome with emotion and bitter at those who cheered the news. His friend was gone. The world was not now a safer place. Not a single future killer would be deterred; he knew killers and what prompted them to act. If the victim's family was pleased, then they were far from closure. Greg had been raised in a Methodist church and now studied the Bible every day. Didn't Jesus teach forgiveness? If killing was wrong, then why was the state allowed to kill? By whose authority was the execution carried out? He's been hit with these arguments before, many times, but now they resonated from a different source.
The death of Charles Coleman was a dramatic revelation for Greg. At that moment he flipped 180 degrees, never to return to his eye-for-an-eye beliefs.
That was the execution of a guilty man, and it caused more sorrow and hardship than it relieved.
You say you want the person who shot your sister executed. I believe you want to see him suffer the harshest possible punishment that the state can give. I would feel the same. The difference is, I live in a country without the death penalty, therefore my desire is for him to go to prison for the rest of his life.
A life sentance takes away your life. Think of all the things that you intend to do with the rest of your life. You can make something of it. You could get married, have kids, start a family, and get a good job. You could see the world and have fun. A person in prison has none of that. Day in, day out, he will see the same people he hates, be in the same shitty places, eat the same horrible food. His life has no purpose or meaning. It is existence without substance. It is hopeless.
When someone goes to prison for life, they are attoning for their crimes, whatever they may be. That is as bad as it gets. You want the death penalty because you believe that it is both as bad as it gets, and a viable option. I am telling you it is neither.
Also, don't go taking the moral high ground with me, sunshine. I fully appreciate that the world is not always a nice place where we can all be happy all the time, but it can be a damn sight happier than the death penalty will make it.