Someone smoking weed is a stupid reason not to like them.
Yeah I changed my quote. I think naming a specific drug, and also stating I don't like them was a wrong approach. I meant to say Drugs in general, but I think weed more often when I think drug, when it came to my school and environment. And I don't mean I don't like them as in, "You do weed? Can't be your friend, i don't like you." I mean its something I find annoying when someone does drugs. Its more of a caring thing rather than the fact of the drug them self. When I make a friend, I get attached very quickly. And when it involves drugs, if it's not the fact that it can kill them, than its usually the fact they could go to jail, or ruin opportunities in life. (Weed can have many life changing effects, the drug itself wont have too many problem with the body and is pretty harmless, but smoking in general is bad for the body, especially second hand smoke so hanging around them WHILE they're smoking can be bad. Being consumed is pretty harmless too except it can cause a few problems in the stomach that are also minor) But the thing is still a drug, and at the moment, can get you put in jail and stop some colleges from allowing you into them, or cause some jobs to decline you and when high on any drug its not a good mentality to be with children, so if you're a parent doing these things while at home, I don't find it good for a kid. I'm not saying that all drugs will make you walk up and beat your kid, because not all drugs give a effect like that, but your state of mind is not in the mind of take care of my child, watch them, help them with problems, and grow them up to be a good part of society, or making sure they are completely safe with what they're doing to where you are paying enough attention to them so if something goes wrong, you can help quickly and efficiently. So simply, I do not like to be around people who associate themselves with illegal substances or drugs, because It can either mess them up, mess up their career or mess up their children (if they choose to have them) and I would hate to lose a friend in any way because they made a bad choice which could have been avoided.
You're not really pansexual, you just wish you were.
I dont understand what you mean by this. There is something I find attractive about some qualities in someones personality, and if they have those traits then I usually start to like them. Don't care if they look like a model, or if they look like they rubbed their face on a brick wall and shit on it, i don't care. What makes someone pretty, handsome or ugly is how they act rather than how they look.
Pin, it gets better...
o__________o I'm better now, this was all from Early 9th grade year and below. I still get bullied, but i'm coping with it a bit better because right now, I have a better mentality that isn't as fragile as it was while I was younger. I've always been a cry baby, i'd cry from the tiniest things which still stumps my parents, but as I get older, i still feel really emotional, and quick to break, but I usually cope with it, hide it, or find a way to make myself feel better.
Get your facts right Quik
Um.... K o______o I don't look anything like that and never did.
I don't see why you'd look down on them for jusr having fun and trying to do what makes them happy... But apparently it's better to be a horny, crazy, drunk driving, bitch slapping, wife abusing, shitfaced alcoholic... It's legal so that makes it okay...
Being crazy is a general term, so depending on what you mean by crazy depends. If you are actually crazy, you would usually be taken in for help.
Wife abusing is illegal.
Over using alcohol in a public place is illegal, unless you are confined by your own home and not harming anyone, being an alcoholic is pretty illegal. But alcohol is was once illegal, but as demand came up and as time went by, it became legal. Which weed will most likely become too. (Even so, you probably wont be able to do it until your 18 if is legalized, so still the people at school won't be able to do it legally anyways, which is why I wonder why people do it at such a young age saying its okay even though its illegal to them no matter what. If it was legalized it would most likely be illegal to do it under the age of 18, or maybe 21 depending on the government)
Drunk Driving is illegal.
Being horny isn't illegal but usually hormones cause you to get that way. But I don't like it when people EXPECT sex out of someone. Most guys just want to have sex, which bugs me. Especially when they date someone and expect to have sex. You shouldn't expect to have sex with someone you date, you can hope that maybe they'll want to, but some people may find sex a more precious thing then just pleasure, which is why several of my relationships fail because I decline sex from them. Now if you want to have sex and they want to have sex then go for it. Power to you. Just expecting it out of someone, and then leaving them because they won't give you pleasure is very arrogant and disrespectful to the person. :\
But back to the point, I think looking down on someone for smoking weed is no better than thinking a black person is lower than you or feeling superior to someone gay...
I don't look down on them. I'm no better than anyone, probably lower than most. The weed factor usually applies more to my friends. If you aren't my friend and you smoke weed, it may be something i don't like about you, but it's none of my business because we don't have to consult with each other, and I don't have the right to control your life. If we are friends, than it is still something i don't like about you, but now I worry about you, not that you're going to die or some crap, but if you're going to do something you regret, like miss out on a job opportunity, declined from a good college, go to jail because it's illegal or because of the psychological effect you might neglect someone or something that may cause an issue for you. The weed doesn't make you a bad person to me, it's just something I don't like.
Like how in some religious views, people don't like gays, if it is someone they don't know, they usually avoid the conflict or call them the devil etc. If they find out its one of their friends, they start to worry off the fear their friend will go to hell and they try to protect them from that at all costs. Only difference with me though, is I don't call them potheads or druggies, I usually avoid them and let them live their life as they want, and not butt in because I don't have to be associated with them, with my friends I have to see them, and associate myself with them, and you're friends try to tell you things for the better out of their views, no one says you have to listen though. :P I hope I cleared some stuff up, i worded my thing wrong and a bit arrogantly.
