How do you stop children below 12 from being too social and sexual

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Jul 25, 2013 1:40 PM #1045821
Seriously, I just keep wondering about this, the government of other countries should control this situation...mannered and disciplined kids may be hard to find now. I keep seeing them take pics like "omg! Omg! Youre so, bullshit" something like that. Also I keep hearing some news bout kids having sex with or without condom, and having gfs/bfs in the age of 12, theyre still grade 6 and shit.
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Jul 25, 2013 2:23 PM #1045884
This seems more like a parenting issue than something the government should get involved with. Unless it involves banning abstinence-only sex ed, but I doubt that'll happen any time soon.
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Jul 25, 2013 2:28 PM #1045888
Hmm youre right tho. Shouldnt be debated. Well this sucks. Delete this thread.
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Jul 25, 2013 2:33 PM #1045892
You want to end the debate just because you agree with the first response? At least give it a chance.
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Jul 25, 2013 3:22 PM #1045984
The government has nothing to do with this issue, if this is hapoening more often is because the parents are giving less craps about it. It's a familiar issue that must he solved at home.

What the government could do, is to make schools to teach kids about sex at the age of 10 or something.
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Jul 25, 2013 3:22 PM #1045985
Which places do you mean when you say 'other countries'? Statistics from the Guttmacher Institute seem to imply that this problem is being taken care of pretty well at least in the U.S. and many European countries.
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Jul 25, 2013 5:58 PM #1046160
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Which places do you mean when you say 'other countries'? Statistics from the Guttmacher Institute seem to imply that this problem is being taken care of pretty well at least in the U.S. and many European countries.

I'm generally hesitant on trusting statistics even if its from a well-known source since they usually tend to be pretty unspecific and broad and/or examine the wrong people/miss a large majority of people who are keeping secrets if you know what I mean.

Sorry if this sounds a little confusing, I'm a little drowsy right now and its hard to think straight.
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Jul 25, 2013 6:46 PM #1046213
That's understandable, but then where do we go from here? This is not a philosophical debate, it's a social one, i.e. it involves the habits and activities of people. The only source for what actually happens to these people in their own privacy if the event is not something very visually apparent like pregnancy is their word, and if we can't trust their word then there are zero reputable sources of information and so the only position with a foundation is "it's impossible to know" which gets us nowhere.
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Jul 26, 2013 10:57 AM #1047050
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You want to end the debate just because you agree with the first response? At least give it a chance.


Well you're right. Now debate this shit if you can. Not only you Exile.
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Jul 26, 2013 11:00 AM #1047055
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That's understandable, but then where do we go from here? This is not a philosophical debate, it's a social one, i.e. it involves the habits and activities of people. The only source for what actually happens to these people in their own privacy if the event is not something very visually apparent like pregnancy is their word, and if we can't trust their word then there are zero reputable sources of information and so the only position with a foundation is "it's impossible to know" which gets us nowhere.

I agree, I understand its a direction that we can follow, but I also thought it was good point out that even sources like these should still be taken with a grain of salt.
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Jul 26, 2013 12:12 PM #1047133
You shouldn't lose your virginity like that.

Until you get older you should be ready for sex, but not when you're in 6th grade. That just sounds really dumb. It seems like they are rushing their relationship just to have sex at an early age, but that's a stupid way to lose your virginity.
Besides, you get better sex when your older and girls will actually have boobs at the time, so I suggest you just wait until the time is at best.
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Jul 26, 2013 12:24 PM #1047148
I do believe teenage pregnancy is, how should I say this.

Fucking stupid.

There are things that prevent pregnancy people! If you can get birth control pills ladies, get them! And even if you don't, make the guy wear a condom and, seeing as they still break, make him pull out even with a condom on just to be sure. Yes it takes out SOME of the fun but, honestly, I'd much rather be a virgin because girls wouldn't have sex with me with a condom on, then be a baby daddy.
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Jul 26, 2013 5:49 PM #1047524
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I do believe teenage pregnancy is, how should I say this.

Fucking stupid.

There are things that prevent pregnancy people! If you can get birth control pills ladies, get them! And even if you don't, make the guy wear a condom and, seeing as they still break, make him pull out even with a condom on just to be sure. Yes it takes out SOME of the fun but, honestly, I'd much rather be a virgin because girls wouldn't have sex with me with a condom on, then be a baby daddy.


I know right? Besides, I bet the parents would be pissed if they find out their daughter was pregnant. Which is why early sex is not a good idea.
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Jul 26, 2013 7:36 PM #1047626
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I know right? Besides, I bet the parents would be pissed if they find out their daughter was pregnant. Which is why early sex is not a good idea.


Not to mention the problems that come with raising a small child as a teen/preteen.
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Jul 27, 2013 12:10 AM #1047940
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The government has nothing to do with this issue, if this is hapoening more often is because the parents are giving less craps about it. It's a familiar issue that must he solved at home.

What the government could do, is to make schools to teach kids about sex at the age of 10 or something.

Or dont let the school sell condoms. Our school just taught us what HIV is, and it includes sexual words and shit .-.