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Oct 2, 2012 7:35 PM #750249
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what fucking happened is that you're a pussy. when a girl deems you unimportant, you consider it unimportant. if your girlfriend suddenly loses interest, yeah it may blow dick because you liked her, but fuck it. really. does she care? no, she's the one losing interest in you. why should you care? if things didnt go absolutely perfect with one girl, there is always another somewhere else that will appreciate you more than the girl that it didn't work out with.

what seems to be happening in your case is you are developing cling-itis-syndrome. this is where a man's emotional wellbeing becomes dependent on the woman that they are with. if you feel this happening to you, ABORT IMMEDIATELY. CUT THAT SHIT. she stops talking to you for two fucking days, you do NOT handle it the way you already did. putting even your physical wellbeing into jeopardy because of some stupid cunt? that is the most easily identifiable symptom of being a bitch made pussy is.

look here kid, man the fuck up and tell your little girlfriend of yours that she is not being the usual girlfriend that you're used to and if she has something to tell you it must be right now, then and there, otherwise you two are done. YOU initiate the break up, now that she has ignored you for that time and made up lies to excuse herself from you. Obviously it is on HER mind already, why isnt it on yours? All you're doing is mourning over it like a silly little crybaby. CALL THAT BITCH RIGHT NOW AND TELL HER WHAT I JUST TOLD YOU

inb4 bad advice
inb4 im an asshole


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MY girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago for the same reasons almost. She told me that she didn't know and that we argued a lot (which isn't true, but women, come on). I was fairly depressed about it, I'm not going to lie, but then I stayed up til five in the morning and cut up all her shit and threw it at her the next day lol. I felt a lot better, in fact I went out and got a blowjob that night. It was exactly what I needed. Now I'm talking to her again because she still has "feelings" for me yet she's kinda talking to this other guy to. So it's like she's trying to think who to pick. I'm not going to compete with some other worthless douche. The thing I find rather amusing about the situation is he claims to like her and shit, I want to go up in there and tell him how we've been fucking for the past two weeks lol. The way I see it, don't kill yourself over some girl. Don't make your whole life about her. Get yourself some classy clothes, and focus more on your appearance. Do what I did. Make her regret leaving you. Go hang out with some other girls and stop acting like you need her, because you don't. It makes you look weak, to her and to your peers. Make it her loss, not yours, and when she asks for you back, say no, even if you want her back. If she wants you back, make her work for it, make her show you that she actually cares about you. If she doesn't want you back, fuck it, go get fucked up and have a good time with some other girls.


These douchebags are right Cook. Let me just put this in a simple way to follow that's easy to do without mistake.

Don't let your emotional mind take over your logical mind. When you think emotionally, you blind and convince yourself things that in normal circumstances you'd avoid/fix. It's nice to think emotionally, but that's only when the dominoes are falling in the right direction. Otherwise don't fall into a situation where someone else has control of your emotions and personality.

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It must be in the air man I swear.. my lady and I are having issues still since my last post in here. Being together for 6 + years doesn't heal all issues either.


You should really take everything above the quote of you into consideration as well. I understand that your situation is much more serious, but the same concept applies.
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Oct 2, 2012 8:06 PM #750267
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These douchebags are right Cook.


lmao, no they aren't.

Well, arch-angel's advice isn't bad, but kyevo is just being a douchebag.

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Otherwise don't fall into a situation where someone else has control of your emotions and personality.


Personality I agree with, but emotions? Seriously? Do you know completely detached, withdrawn and disinterested you'd have to be to not care at all about how your relationship makes you feel?

You guys give some really weird advice.
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Oct 2, 2012 8:16 PM #750271
I'm saying it shouldn't control your emotions. That means that you shouldn't let things that normally wouldn't matter to you suddenly make you depressed and not happy because you're not thinking with your logical mind anymore.
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Oct 2, 2012 8:30 PM #750280
I hope I won't have to deal with much of this when I eventually start dating other men.
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Oct 2, 2012 9:11 PM #750306
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I hope I won't have to deal with much of this when I eventually start dating other men.

I dunno know why but i lolled at this.

Btw fusion, i always wondered this. How do gay guys find other gay guys? They dont just go up and start hitting on men hoping they're gay or anything.
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Oct 2, 2012 9:23 PM #750309
Don't ask me, I have no idea. All of my gay friends I know through the internet (i.e. I don't know any other irl gay people)
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Oct 2, 2012 9:41 PM #750327
Your in quite the pickle.

You need to figure out how to get that pickle in you.
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Oct 2, 2012 10:31 PM #750358
Online dating sites? Clubs? Parades? I heard there are alot of parades.
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Oct 2, 2012 10:44 PM #750369
Hey if you want to be raped and/or stabbed there's always craigslist.
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Oct 2, 2012 10:53 PM #750373
Sounds quite useful.
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Oct 2, 2012 11:32 PM #750399
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Your in quite the pickle.

You need to figure out how to get that pickle in you.

Haha, man that is so lame.
I'm banking on the university I'm going to having a reasonable amount of gays (it's in Atlanta which is actually like 15% gay people apparently, so I have reason to believe so), so as long as I can deal with being a bit lonely here in high school, I'll be fine afterwards.
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Oct 3, 2012 1:35 AM #750458
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what fucking happened is that you're a pussy. when a girl deems you unimportant, you consider it unimportant. if your girlfriend suddenly loses interest, yeah it may blow dick because you liked her, but fuck it. really. does she care? no, she's the one losing interest in you. why should you care? if things didnt go absolutely perfect with one girl, there is always another somewhere else that will appreciate you more than the girl that it didn't work out with.

what seems to be happening in your case is you are developing cling-itis-syndrome. this is where a man's emotional wellbeing becomes dependent on the woman that they are with. if you feel this happening to you, ABORT IMMEDIATELY. CUT THAT SHIT. she stops talking to you for two fucking days, you do NOT handle it the way you already did. putting even your physical wellbeing into jeopardy because of some stupid cunt? that is the most easily identifiable symptom of being a bitch made pussy is.

look here kid, man the fuck up and tell your little girlfriend of yours that she is not being the usual girlfriend that you're used to and if she has something to tell you it must be right now, then and there, otherwise you two are done. YOU initiate the break up, now that she has ignored you for that time and made up lies to excuse herself from you. Obviously it is on HER mind already, why isnt it on yours? All you're doing is mourning over it like a silly little crybaby. CALL THAT BITCH RIGHT NOW AND TELL HER WHAT I JUST TOLD YOU

inb4 bad advice
inb4 im an asshole


you're an asshole


It turns out that a ton of disney movies are on youtube. This is fortunate.
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Oct 3, 2012 2:48 AM #750539
Go for it. Any reason why you want to switch?
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Oct 3, 2012 3:05 AM #750547
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you're an asshole


It turns out that a ton of disney movies are on youtube. This is fortunate.

Well I'm going to go on a nostalgia trip. However I have to wait until after my exams. God damn exams.
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Oct 3, 2012 5:00 AM #750587
this is my favourite disney movie on youtube