So guys. Some advice (Preferably from Solister) I have this "friend" he's extremely cynical. But at the same time he's a joy to be around. Last summer we were really good friends, but when classes started back up he turned into a huge dick. He constantly avoids me and tells me to go away. Wich isn't convinent because this year we got mixed up with the same exact peer group. So we basically spend the entire day with our friends and me and him going at each others throat's 24/7. I don't think he's genuinely mad, we talk and listen to music during breaks often. But he's usually extremely distant and just plain fucking rude to me. Thoughts bitches? How should I go about this, I like my friend and I think he's cool. And I sure as hell don't want anyone hating me.
sounds like a giant poop
he's probably one of those kids in his middle school emo phase that will outgrow it within the next 3-5 months, and when he does he'll most likely apologize
does anyone else in your peer group notice how much of a cock he is
He may be going through something tough at home, or he may be developing a mental health issue (slight depression, anxiety around school/friend situations, etc) and those alone can cause people to act strangely. Throw in the fact that you're aging and your mind is still developing, it can cause you to act not like yourself in a shit ton of different ways. It may be just an unrequited friendship. You want to be his friend and he doesn't want to be yours. I say if you give it a few weeks and just kinda gravitate towards new friends or something and try again, you might get a different reaction from him. But I can't really help with malexmale problems, I'm only part man and I don't know how comfortable you are asking him what crawled up his ass and died to cause him to be such a dick.
My best advice is to just leave it for a while and try again. If that fails, I say you just move on man. Plenty of chill people everywhere with common interests
He may be going through something tough at home, or he may be developing a mental health issue (slight depression, anxiety around school/friend situations, etc) and those alone can cause people to act strangely. Throw in the fact that you're aging and your mind is still developing, it can cause you to act not like yourself in a shit ton of different ways. It may be just an unrequited friendship. You want to be his friend and he doesn't want to be yours. I say if you give it a few weeks and just kinda gravitate towards new friends or something and try again, you might get a different reaction from him. But I can't really help with malexmale problems, I'm only part man and I don't know how comfortable you are asking him what crawled up his ass and died to cause him to be such a dick.
My best advice is to just leave it for a while and try again. If that fails, I say you just move on man. Plenty of chill people everywhere with common interests
It's been happening since classes started, and we just got half way into the year last week. And I can't just move on because he hangs out with my other friends as well. :/
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sounds like a giant poop
he's probably one of those kids in his middle school emo phase that will outgrow it within the next 3-5 months, and when he does he'll most likely apologize
does anyone else in your peer group notice how much of a cock he is
Yeah, both my other friends within my peer group acknowledge what an asshole he is. One of them actually secretly hates him. It's like a big clusterfuck of whats.
if confronting him alone hasn't resulted well, gather up some of your peers (especially the one that hates him) and try and do some intervention shit where in the midst of hanging out as a group, y'all sit him down and have a nice civilized discussion on why he's acting like a shit
i mean if he still hangs out with you guys he must like you to some extent
if he completely flips shit and decides to not hang out with you forever then you can blame me