A post regarding the community and my own position

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Oct 13, 2015 4:48 AM #1408475
To everyone here,

*Was not trying to make this post, but I think I should clarify things clearly so as to possibly stop any further redundant discussions"

Originally I talked to Galeforce yesterday about the SE mod issue yesterday, I spent some time to discuss with him and finally we came up with a conclusion

He tried to convince me with his reasons, and actually did helped me to do something to look into the issue.
The only reason that I changed my decision was just that I wanted to stop any further arguments, did not mean that I thought I made a wrong decision/mistake
I admit I made a mistake, but definitely not the "mistake" that was mentioned by some people who pointed their fingers towards me.
A ban is valid and reasonable , just that year ban may not be appropriate
Somehow I still think I made the correct decision, may not be 100% correct, but I am pretty sure some of my points are vaild, no one actually face my points directly though.


I have to say, I am seriously very disappointed on the whole community and most people here.
Regarding the issue happened in the past two days, most people did not actually take a close look on the issue, and did not actually make any solid help.
Most people just voiced out their opinions when an argument and a war occurred, and created further more arguments. And part of the community simply tried to ignore anything happened.
I think some people did not even understand the whole situation before they voiced out their opinions.

No one actually think on my side, let alone trying to understand the difficulties and effort that I faced and spent.
What I received was , pure doubt, pure flame , pure negative feedbacks and fucks.
And the most important thing is, people voiced out their opinions, but actually they did nothing to help at all. Only point their fingers towards me after accidents occurred.

Precisely speaking, I never asked to be a SE chat mod, and I did not want to do so in the first place.
Because I did not expect I have high level of tolerance on some people , and I did not want to spend extra time + effort to do something that is not my responsibility.
CJ was the one who appointed me as chat mod suddenly couple months ago.
He trusted me, and I respect him as well, so I tried to fulfill my responsibility after I got the mod position.
In the recent couple months , I can safely say that the time I spend on global chat management is not less than any other mods, and most of the time I am the single mod online due to a different timezone.
That's why most of the time when I encounter a difficult situation, I have to solve it by myself without having any help by others. And I have to make decisions by myself as well.
Just like what I expected, I did my job, yet I only got fucks by others.

To conclude, I am disappointed on the whole community's reaction towards an issue, as well as disappointed on having no one actually think on my side.
I already tried to contact CrazyJay to cancel my modship and also possibly delete all my SE accounts . I don't want to do something that is an "extra job" for me while getting nothing good but only bad.
In addition, I tried to contact Jeff to delete my stickpage forum account as well. .
So I am expecting any further discussions about me will be stopped, but I won't know what will happen anyway, so it is only your choices.

Bye, to all those people who hated me or tried to point their fingers towards me, I suggest you to use your heart and ask yourself, whether you guys actually did anything good without making any mistakes like you guys think of yourself , and whether you guys actually helped anything before you blame others.
Also, shout out to galeforce and Rain for privately chatting with me and giving me some suggestions. You two are amazing.
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Oct 13, 2015 5:09 AM #1408476
Quote from mysterybat
To everyone here,

*Was not trying to make this post, but I think I should clarify things clearly so as to possibly stop any further redundant discussions"

Originally I talked to Galeforce yesterday about the SE mod issue yesterday, I spent some time to discuss with him and finally we came up with a conclusion

He tried to convince me with his reasons, and actually did helped me to do something to look into the issue.
The only reason that I changed my decision was just that I wanted to stop any further arguments, did not mean that I thought I made a wrong decision/mistake
I admit I made a mistake, but definitely not the "mistake" that was mentioned by some people who pointed their fingers towards me.
A ban is valid and reasonable , just that year ban may not be appropriate
Somehow I still think I made the correct decision, may not be 100% correct, but I am pretty sure some of my points are vaild, no one actually face my points directly though.


I have to say, I am seriously very disappointed on the whole community and most people here.
Regarding the issue happened in the past two days, most people did not actually take a close look on the issue, and did not actually make any solid help.
Most people just voiced out their opinions when an argument and a war occurred, and created further more arguments. And part of the community simply tried to ignore anything happened.
I think some people did not even understand the whole situation before they voiced out their opinions.

No one actually think on my side, let alone trying to understand the difficulties and effort that I faced and spent.
What I received was , pure doubt, pure flame , pure negative feedbacks and fucks.
And the most important thing is, people voiced out their opinions, but actually they did nothing to help at all. Only point their fingers towards me after accidents occurred.

Precisely speaking, I never asked to be a SE chat mod, and I did not want to do so in the first place.
Because I did not expect I have high level of tolerance on some people , and I did not want to spend extra time + effort to do something that is not my responsibility.
CJ was the one who appointed me as chat mod suddenly couple months ago.
He trusted me, and I respect him as well, so I tried to fulfill my responsibility after I got the mod position.
In the recent couple months , I can safely say that the time I spend on global chat management is not less than any other mods, and most of the time I am the single mod online due to a different timezone.
That's why most of the time when I encounter a difficult situation, I have to solve it by myself without having any help by others. And I have to make decisions by myself as well.
Just like what I expected, I did my job, yet I only got fucks by others.

To conclude, I am disappointed on the whole community's reaction towards an issue, as well as disappointed on having no one actually think on my side.
I already tried to contact CrazyJay to cancel my modship and also possibly delete all my SE accounts . I don't want to do something that is an "extra job" for me while getting nothing good but only bad.
In addition, I tried to contact Jeff to delete my stickpage forum account as well. .
So I am expecting any further discussions about me will be stopped, but I won't know what will happen anyway, so it is only your choices.

Bye, to all those people who hated me or tried to point their fingers towards me, I suggest you to use your heart and ask yourself, whether you guys actually did anything good without making any mistakes like you guys think of yourself , and whether you guys actually helped anything before you blame others.
Also, shout out to galeforce and Rain for privately chatting with me and giving me some suggestions. You two are amazing.


I just really didn't understand the whole Archy situation or what he has done, so I couldn't really side with you, then again I know what it feels like to deal with him, so I understand the feelings you felt. Deleting your... well everything does seem a bit drastic though, I am hoping we can chat about it? :)
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Oct 13, 2015 5:17 AM #1408478
Mystery you're upset, and I don't blame you. But please, don't do this.

Source: Had tried to do this a year ago. Certainly regret it lol.
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Oct 13, 2015 5:26 AM #1408479
Can someone give me the cliff notes version behind this drama
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Oct 13, 2015 5:40 AM #1408480
Quote from Hewitt
Can someone give me the cliff notes version behind this drama


Archy pissed Myst off. Myst banned Archy. Archy bitched about it. Everyone sided with Archy. That's basically the summary.
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Oct 13, 2015 5:53 AM #1408481
And he got banned for a year? Am I reading that right?
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Oct 13, 2015 7:26 AM #1408487
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Mystery you're upset, and I don't blame you. But please, don't do this.

Source: Had tried to do this a year ago. Certainly regret it lol.


I don't understand how this disagreement got blown so out of proportion. This is ridiculous :/

You should stay though. SE community is amaazing.
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Oct 13, 2015 7:41 AM #1408488
I don't know how to feel about this thread. How can you honestly say you made a mistake but say that you feel that you made the right decision? Not one person sided with you for a reason Mystery, because the ban was unjust. Instead of seriously owning up to what you did wrong, you're pointing your finger at the rest of the community for not siding with you as if they did something wrong. Also understand that you brought all this upon yourself. You went onto this thread http://forums.stickpage.com/showthread.php?97430-Please-make-a-button-to-Disable-Music!!! and called me and the thread dumb and stupid for no reason. You're the one who banned me unjustly. Note that I posted screenshots of every single account that I have ever used showing that none were banned, so how can you honestly say that a ban for Alt Dodging is valid when no accounts are banned? It seems as if you still don't recognize your mistake and certainly aren't learning from it. I don't know if you are acting like this because you seriously believe you are right or if you are just too stubborn to admit that you were wrong after evidence was submitted showing that none of my accounts were banned plus multiple mods and players saying you were wrong. Also, understand that I never hated you Mystery, even though you hated me.

Understand that I had to spend hours typing and reading on the forums just to get my account unbanned and reverse the "mistake" that you made. It felt like I had wrote a 20 page paper by the time my account was unbanned.

I just find it kind of funny that things didn't go the way you wanted, so you decide to quit the game and to have all your accounts deleted. I don't know if this is an attempt to make the community see you as a victim in the previous dispute. I don't know if you're trying to make everyone feel bad for you for some reason. I don't know if you are just looking for attention and want everyone to say "don't leave Mystery". And I don't know if you are serious and just feel it's time to move on from this game and from the forums. To be honest, I really don't care which scenario it is, if you want to leave the game and forums, then all power to you. But a couple things I do know is that StickEmpires will manage to function without you, the forum will manage to function without you and the Earth will certainly continue to spin without you.

As I stated earlier I never hated you Mystery even though you hated me. I wish things could have ended better. Best of luck to you on whatever you decide to do next in life.
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Oct 13, 2015 10:00 AM #1408492
I think everyone should just ignore this thread and stop posting.

Like right now.


Doesn't matter if you have anything good or bad to say, this thread is one big dramabait waiting to explode.


Just walk away.