Meeting other gay people is like, 100000000 times easier once you've come out and everyone knows about it. Then other gay guys, even if they haven't come out, can just come up to you and be like, "You're gay, I'm gay. Wanna bang?"
It's totally how it goes for my gay friend (minus the "wanna bang" most of the time)

I think if I was out it would only be slightly more irritating in the crowd that I actually spend the most time with. None of them really have a big issue with me being an Atheist, so I'm just extrapolating.
However, they're not really the ones I'm worried about. I have heard people literally say "I'm not going to vote for Obama because he likes gay people" and these people have friends and go to the same school as me, so they would kind of be an issue that I really don't want to deal with.

I don't really care about 'social status', though, anyway, if that was actually what you were asking about.

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You do know that I'm 17 right

Maybe spend the next year quietly masturbating. Then do the gay bar/internet thing.

well I go to an overcrowded public school so it's not really the same kind of situation. But I can see how being in an all-boys school could cause those kinds of issues.

Hey man I get where you're coming from. And I'm gonna agree with you on not really coming out with it. Now before you accuse me of being an asshole let me just state what I mean by that.

People who are straight don't walk around telling people they're straight. I understand that when you meet someone you just assume they're straight, but announcing around that you're gay is almost like a cry for attention (and if it isn't then everyone else will most likely think it is.) There's nothing wrong with being gay, which I'm sure you know, so there's no reason to put it out there like it is wrong and should be right. I mean I'm sure you're not fantasizing all the time about getting it on with some guy, so there's no point in trying to force it to happen.

The way you should approach it is the same way straight people do, don't look for it. Otherwise it's forced and that could go bad regardless of your first impression of the situation. If you find something when you're not even looking for it, it gives it that much more purpose.

Fusion before I give you my input I need to know. Are there any people who already know and are fairly close to you. Also, can you handle yourself in a fight? Personally, I don't support homosexuality but I'm not against it either. I honestly don't give a shit. As long as you aren't gay for me then hey...we could be the best of friends. But not everyone thinks like me. It's unfortunate but people are gonna fuck with you regardless. So find yourself that select group of kickass, die hard, for life friends and get yourself some awesome comebacks. Preferably ones that make the recipient question his/her own sexuality. And then...*drum roll* dont say anything. That's right. Nothing at all. The genius above me is right. You don't need to announce it to everyone. But if someone confronts you about it directly then you tell them the truth. It's not like it's anything to lie about just because most of the general public thinks it's a bad thing. Most people also wouldn't recommend being black but I turned out just fine in my opinion.

I just read your this and just say I haven't fell in love with a girl or at least had a crush for like 7 and a half years and I'm 14 so probably I spent half of it lonely. So to say now that I am 14 I trying to get back from the 7 years I lost, currently just looking for a girl who I can be with besides at least you guys know how to love another girl but I never learned
Always thought love was nothing and I just stayed on gaming for the past years

You're 14 not 35. What the hell are you talking about living half of your life lonely? Do 7 year old's suddenly expect a long term relationship now? They haven't even hit puberty.

"R is for Relationships
'N' mine are non-existent
'Cause my friends and my women,
I like to keep them distant." (:

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I just read your this and just say I haven't fell in love with a girl or at least had a crush for like 7 and a half years and I'm 14 so probably I spent half of it lonely. So to say now that I am 14 I trying to get back from the 7 years I lost, currently just looking for a girl who I can be with besides at least you guys know how to love another girl but I never learned
Always thought love was nothing and I just stayed on gaming for the past years

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The way you should approach it is the same way straight people do, don't look for it. Otherwise it's forced and that could go bad regardless of your first impression of the situation. If you find something when you're not even looking for it, it gives it that much more purpose.

The post I put up for Fusion relates to you, too.

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"R is for Relationships
'N' mine are non-existent
'Cause my friends and my women,
I like to keep them distant." (:

I enjoy this song.

Why are you guys putting words in my mouth? I never said I was going to walk around with a megaphone or some shit.

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Why are you guys putting words in my mouth? I never said I was going to walk around with a megaphone or some shit.

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Hey man I get where you're coming from. And I'm gonna agree with you on not really coming out with it. Now before you accuse me of being an asshole let me just state what I mean by that.

Just giving 2 cents. Didn't mean to come off that way.

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And I'm gonna agree with you on not really coming out with it

I am going to do that though, just not right now.

Well what exactly do you mean by coming out with it? Just like let your close friends know?

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The way you should approach it is the same way straight people do, don't look for it. Otherwise it's forced and that could go bad regardless of your first impression of the situation. If you find something when you're not even looking for it, it gives it that much more purpose.

This. Fucking this.

>I've never had a girlfriend, always looking for one.
>Feel pathetic
>Girls don't really like me
>Give up on dating
>Turns out girl really likes me
>We date for a month
>She dumps me because "I like her more than she likes me"
>Get depressed
>Get into hardcore working out and chilling with bros
>Stop giving a fuck
>Become fairly popular at school as the witty, quiet guy
>I try to get back with girl
>She's not feeling it
>Get depressed
>Give up on dating (This was earlier today)
>Out with friends earlier tonight
>I see my crush from last year
>She knows all my friends, since she used to attend my school
>She met me once when I was fat and beta
>"Wow, you really changed!"
>SHES LOOKING AT THESE MUSCLES, NIGGA.
>We really hit it off
>She brings her friend over and they talk to me
>They're both clearly interested and invite me over to their table
>No bitch, bro time.
>But when booty calls
>
>You answer
>We mess around with the food at the restaurant and I flirt with them
>She's all over me and we get along really well
>When I leave, she gives me her phone and I enter my number
>She has her friends take a picture of the two of us, but my friend photobombs it
>She's too embarrassed for a second pic
>She's going to add me on fb later tonight when she gets home
>feelsgoodman.jpeg