You Can Learn From Sacred's Relationship Troubles

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Oct 14, 2012 6:35 AM #759212
Good for you, man. For serious.
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Oct 14, 2012 12:46 PM #759354
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Well what exactly do you mean by coming out with it? Just like let your close friends know?

I mean telling anybody whenever it comes up in conversation.
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Oct 14, 2012 1:38 PM #759383
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You're 14 not 35. What the hell are you talking about living half of your life lonely? Do 7 year old's suddenly expect a long term relationship now? They haven't even hit puberty.


Dude, seriously most guys in my school have girlfriends now and also most of my friends during the 6th grade have girlfriends now
so mostly I am trying to say is that this ain't normal. My friends keep telling to at least like a girl I mean 7 years that's a very long time but when you think about it, it's actually a short time but living it, is a very different story. Guys my age are mostly interested in relationship and also are interested in girls. Let me ask you when was the first time you had a crush on a girl?

I am not mad at you or anything, I am just trying to make a point here.
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Oct 14, 2012 1:44 PM #759385
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This. Fucking this.

>I've never had a girlfriend, always looking for one.
>Feel pathetic
>Girls don't really like me
>Give up on dating
>Turns out girl really likes me
>We date for a month
>She dumps me because "I like her more than she likes me"
>Get depressed
>Get into hardcore working out and chilling with bros
>Stop giving a fuck
>Become fairly popular at school as the witty, quiet guy
>I try to get back with girl
>She's not feeling it
>Get depressed
>Give up on dating (This was earlier today)
>Out with friends earlier tonight
>I see my crush from last year
>She knows all my friends, since she used to attend my school
>She met me once when I was fat and beta
>"Wow, you really changed!"
>SHES LOOKING AT THESE MUSCLES, NIGGA.
>We really hit it off
>She brings her friend over and they talk to me
>They're both clearly interested and invite me over to their table
>No bitch, bro time.
>But when booty calls
>
>You answer
>We mess around with the food at the restaurant and I flirt with them
>She's all over me and we get along really well
>When I leave, she gives me her phone and I enter my number
>She has her friends take a picture of the two of us, but my friend photobombs it
>She's too embarrassed for a second pic
>She's going to add me on fb later tonight when she gets home
>feelsgoodman.jpeg


You just made my day with this story and Good Job and Good luck.
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Oct 14, 2012 2:05 PM #759413
guys...why bothering yourselfs by chasing girls...do like me ignore them and live your lives...and they will chase you !
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Oct 14, 2012 2:31 PM #759440
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Dude, seriously most guys in my school have girlfriends now and also most of my friends during the 6th grade have girlfriends now
so mostly I am trying to say is that this ain't normal. My friends keep telling to at least like a girl I mean 7 years that's a very long time but when you think about it, it's actually a short time but living it, is a very different story. Guys my age are mostly interested in relationship and also are interested in girls. Let me ask you when was the first time you had a crush on a girl?

I am not mad at you or anything, I am just trying to make a point here.


Don't chase women. I'm 17, and I've only recently gotten into dating. Do not go after women at your age. They're all shitty, undecisive assholes who'll shit on your heart and then want you back the minute they realize you're gone. you'll fall into a ditch of feeling like shit, and then peaking occasionally when she feels like being nice. Just live your own fucking life, try hard at school, and get as physically fit as you can. You should be working on yourself now, so when girls finally become mature (about 16) then you can score some nice shit.
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Oct 14, 2012 2:45 PM #759447
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when girls finally become mature (about 16)


Try 21-25, and even then they're pretty immature.

edit: Nevermind, I'm wrong. It's entirely dependent on the individual.
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Oct 14, 2012 2:49 PM #759448
did anyone even red my post ?:mad:
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Oct 14, 2012 3:29 PM #759470
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Dude, seriously most guys in my school have girlfriends now and also most of my friends during the 6th grade have girlfriends now
so mostly I am trying to say is that this ain't normal. My friends keep telling to at least like a girl I mean 7 years that's a very long time but when you think about it, it's actually a short time but living it, is a very different story. Guys my age are mostly interested in relationship and also are interested in girls. Let me ask you when was the first time you had a crush on a girl?

I am not mad at you or anything, I am just trying to make a point here.


100% of relationships formed before high school shouldn't even be considered real relationships. All of them end terribly since both parties aren't mature enough to handle the true feelings a relationship is meant to possess. You're wanting to get in a relationship because everyone else is. Well like Hewitt said, that doesn't make any sense. In fact that's downright insulting to the idea of a relationship.

And no, ages 7-14 don't matter about relationships in even the slightest. When you turn 16, then look for the mature ones. Until then, they're all immature just like you.
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Oct 14, 2012 3:58 PM #759485
I dated a girl who was 15, and she dumped me because I "liked her too much".

You know, I like to be nice to my girlfriend and buy her stuff and make her feel loved, but fuck me, right!
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Oct 14, 2012 5:51 PM #759589
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did anyone even red my post ?:mad:


Who's gonna take relationship advice from a muslim that believes in jesus.
You're like a heterosexual man who only fucks guys.
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Oct 14, 2012 5:54 PM #759591
cue the awkward lack of posts
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Oct 14, 2012 5:58 PM #759595
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guys...why bothering yourselfs by chasing girls...do like me ignore them and live your lives...and they will chase you !


Yeah, how's that working for ya? :/
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Oct 14, 2012 6:17 PM #759608
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I dated a girl who was 15, and she dumped me because I "liked her too much".

You know, I like to be nice to my girlfriend and buy her stuff and make her feel loved, but fuck me, right!

This made me lol. Same thing happened to one of my friends in high school. She dumped him because he said he loved her. He's now married to her cousin with 2 kids.
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Oct 14, 2012 6:33 PM #759623
The point of getting in a relationship is so that you and the other mutual party can both care for each other and take responsibility to make the other happy consistently. So if you drop a relationship because that seems to be happening and you're getting uncomfortable from someone trying for you, then why even get in the relationship? Fuck those people. They're a disgrace.