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So much detail sacred... And to help you understand the one girl saying you disrespected her probably wanted attention... It's one of those things where a girl keeps saying she is ugly even though even though she's not... It's too get attention and it doesn't matter how they get it either

Yeah, at the end of the day who really cares about the methods as long as you acquire the same result? Some people just disappoint me.

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Yeah, at the end of the day who really cares about the methods as long as you acquire the same result? Some people just disappoint me.

Well the ends don't justify the means... And you should correct some with alot in my opinion

I generally just give up all hope for the modern society. I'm happy to love me, myself and I. I don't betray myself like others can.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, sacred. You simply ran into a feminist.

Well you could've of, you know... not got off with her friend?
I mean what did you think would happen? Some sort of three way friends with benefits thing?

The reason why they are hatin' on you is probably that the friend (to protect their friendship) added into the story that you came onto her and she couldn't really help it.

There was never an establishment that we were exclusive. Nor did either of them protest the idea of me treating both of them as a date the night I took them both out (meaning arm over the shoulder, leg rubbing, etc.)

Here's the way I see it:

If neither of the two ever individually spoke to me about this situation making them uncomfortable, if Benefits was accepting of the date with both of them, if the friend not only planned out me and her hanging out but as well as practically wrapped herself around me when I held my arm out when Netflix was finally playing, and if I constantly made sure neither of them were uncomfortable which both always responded with okay, then I did nothing wrong. This is all an act for them to save face and not feel as though they're at fault for the idea that they both fell for the same guy and got with him.

All I'm saying is that none of this would be bad if they just accepted the idea of a three-way benefits.

Women work in packs. If one of them gets a crazy idea, they all start to turn into lemmings and follow that single idea. No matter if it has them fall off a cliff..

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There was never an establishment that we were exclusive. Nor did either of them protest the idea of me treating both of them as a date the night I took them both out (meaning arm over the shoulder, leg rubbing, etc.)

Here's the way I see it:

If neither of the two ever individually spoke to me about this situation making them uncomfortable, if Benefits was accepting of the date with both of them, if the friend not only planned out me and her hanging out but as well as practically wrapped herself around me when I held my arm out when Netflix was finally playing, and if I constantly made sure neither of them were uncomfortable which both always responded with okay, then I did nothing wrong. This is all an act for them to save face and not feel as though they're at fault for the idea that they both fell for the same guy and got with him.

All I'm saying is that none of this would be bad if they just accepted the idea of a three-way benefits.

Well, assuming that these females don't relate to people you are commonly around/will be around then just leave them to themselves. You don't use Facebook so they won't bother you and if they're just commenting on each other's statuses then it won't get around much. From what you said, you don't really have a reason to keep bothering with this pair.

I hope I made sense, it's almost 2 am here.

I honestly don't see why you're upset. Clearly somewhere along the line at least one of them wasn't comfortable that you went all the way with both of them, or they decided that it was going to make their friendship weird, I dunno, I'll never understand women, but what I do know is that three-way benefits is unfortunately not an option.

But that leaves two possibilities, they make you the villain and put all the blame on you, or start pointing fingers at each other putting strain on their relationship potentially splitting up the friendship. So what would you prefer? Just going along as being the bad guy and casually explaining to people your side of the story if they ever ask you about it, or being the reason two peoples friendship got all weird?

They probably are at fault, they may just be plain crazy, either way you need to stop sooking and play your role.

He's upset because they decided to resolve their issues by publicly casting aspersions against his character instead of being honest to each other and themselves about what happened and how they feel about it. If that sort of bullshit is how they maintain their friendship I don't see why sacred should consider it a good thing that he didn't get in the way of it.

From all my years of being around them, I have come to the conclusion that most women are wolves. They hunt in packs. You can pet them and be nice to them, but the moment you do something that they don't like, they will not hesitate to claw out your eyes, rip your throat out, hang your dead body out to dry, then have a good laugh about it. They are merciless and unfeeling beings, and will do anything to look good in front of their peers. If exploiting a flaw about you has the chance of getting the smallest giggle out of a classmate, they Will take that chance. They will tease you, and try to get a reaction out of you, then call you a pervert when you act on your attraction. If you cannot pinpoint which girl will exploit you and which will love you, you will get destroyed. In other news, I lost my virginity to a watermelon with a hole carved into it.

from all my years of being around them i have found them to be as flawed as any other human and also harmless as they lack the physical body strength to cause significant damage

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From all my years of being around them, I have come to the conclusion that most women are wolves.

You probably lack the social maturity to realize this, but the only thing you're doing here is flaunting the fact that you turn the behaviors and actions of individuals into sweeping generalizations about the opposite sex as a whole.

You're only 16, you have a couple of years worth of interactions with a small number of high school girls, that doesn't translate into knowledge about "most women" and if you've convinced yourself that it does you probably have other judgmental tendencies in social interactions that you don't even realize, but people pick up on it and no one is attracted to people who negatively judge them or the groups they belong to.

Im judged for my lack of a pretty face. Girls give me a look that says "Get away from me, you creep" upon my walking near them. Only once has a girl actually engaged in a conversation with me. She was asking me If she could cheat off me because of her lack of studying.

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He's upset because they decided to resolve their issues by publicly casting aspersions against his character instead of being honest to each other and themselves about what happened and how they feel about it. If that sort of bullshit is how they maintain their friendship I don't see why sacred should consider it a good thing that he didn't get in the way of it.

This is exactly correct.

I think everyone here is misinterpreting what's happening. I'm not posting this here so I can ask, "What do?" And I'm not sitting here sulking about it or letting it screw up my days. I'm just posting it here to vent. What's making me angry is NOT that I'm not gonna be able to sleep with either one of them again. I really couldn't be bothered to stress over something like that. What's getting to me as how now their so highly praised best friendship is being held together by a lie, and that lie is me. Forever now on these girls are going to be convinced (and convince others when they ask) that a perfect example of how strong their friendship is, is when some disrespectful asshole (me) pressured both of them into hooking up with him. And that even though he used both of them, they still had each other's backs all the way through! friends4life!!!

That makes me sick and shits on the idea of a real friendship. There are guys out there that legitimately disrespect women without any regard for their emotions. They'll use them, treat them as objects, count them as numbers, share them like stories, and sometimes go as far as abuse them. I strive to make sure I never have a girl feel pressured or obligated to do anything with me and that there should be no disrespect towards each other's boundaries at all. They know it. So that's rubbing salt in the wound when they portray me as that exact fiend.