Then rape her and feel happy that you don't have your virginity
Now I've just been going to the beginnings of this thread, I found this by chance
I think it goes deeper than girls liking "bad boys". First of all, what ChristianEater said is very relevant. In middleschool/highschool virtually everyone is immature and delusional. Most of your perception of female attraction is probably based not on what women actually appreciate in a man, but what silly girls appreciate in silly boys.
But to answer your question more thoroughly, the reason it seems like girls like bad boys probably has more to do with your definition of a "bad boy" rather than whether or not they are actually "bad".
A large number of girls, especially younger girls, like guys who are assertive, loud, opinionated and who are good at networking socially (having a lot of friends basically). These are all qualities that, if you are quick to judge, can make a guy seem like a alpha-type douchebag, dominating asshole, or "bad boy". The reason girls like guys like this can be for a lot of reasons. Girls like guys who are interesting and fun to be around. For a lot of girls(and people in general), someone who is fun and interesting often is assertive, proactive, has a good number of friends, and is generally very active. Girls also like guys who challenge them and aren't afraid to speak their mind.
The problem with "nice guys" is that they are pussies. No one respects someone who is always trying to be flattering and never gives their opinion for fear of offending someone. Being a "nice guy" is often interpreted as someone who is passive, quiet, non-confrontational and somewhat socially undeveloped.
also dude just focus on school and sports and your hobbies right now (assuming you're in middleschool/highschool). Girls are stupid and lame so wait until college and then go out with some WOMEN instead.
also lift bro you gotta lift
Seemingly since sacred posted that more people should think like this, thou hast been shown.
impossible. give up and move on.
Being stuck on something for god knows how long is never a good thing(gaming aside of course.), same thing with dating and friendzone. The longer you stay the more painful it'll be when you actually try to move on. Not to mention that there can be bad consequences at times.
Speaking of which, I remember that in fifth grade, when I was around 10, everyone was taking the concept so hilariously serious that it was fucking stupid. Though as you have mentioned before, youths are being introduced to sex and such way too fucking early.(not to mention that we first learned about how sex and shit during that when we were 9-11 years old. Fucking stupid in my opinion.)
Stickboy mah man
Mah very good man
Don't tell me you're dating at 14. I'm the same age as you, but I don't have any interests in dating yet. 17 yrs old should be cool enough for free time on dating. But right now, focus on your studies.
Though, I can see his position, he's growing up and he wants to know how it feels like to have a girlfriend and shit But I do agree with you that its way too bloody early for that. Its better to focus on studying for now until you go to college or graduate, because, 1. You won't have studying and such on your shoulders, but if you do focus too much on getting a girlfriend then you'll forget about it and get bad grades/marks in your school, and trust me, thats the worst mistake you can do.
2. When you graduate, you have a lot more time on your hands for other things. Although a job should be first priority, getting a girlfriend is a side benefit.
This is mainly my opinion and not my experience due to that I'm only 14.