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Oh nooooo, she wants to just be friends?



How will you survive?

I'm surviving pretty well, actually. I'm kind of happy with just being friends. Only time I get jelly is when I see her douchebag of a boyfriend, which isn't too often.

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Ask her if she wants to take the friendship to the next level... Or try to ease into the question kinda like "have you ever thought about us going out before" that one would be to see if she would even consider it

No no no, not "have you ever thought". Say "We should go out" or "would you like to go out" or something that makes her feel like you are 100% sure that you want to go out with her. Confidence is attractive, not doubt. Never ask questions like that when it comes to women, just go for it. She denies you, move on. If not, then you succeeded.

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No no no, not "have you ever thought". Say "We should go out" or "would you like to go out" or something that makes her feel like you are 100% sure that you want to go out with her. Confidence is attractive, not doubt. Never ask questions like that when it comes to women, just go for it. She denies you, move on. If not, then you succeeded.

Oh hey, your back.

Hi Cruel.

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Oh hey, your back.

Hi Cruel.

Hello. I see you are just rolling in bitches eh boomerang? You sly dog.

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No no no, not "have you ever thought". Say "We should go out" or "would you like to go out" or something that makes her feel like you are 100% sure that you want to go out with her. Confidence is attractive, not doubt. Never ask questions like that when it comes to women, just go for it. She denies you, move on. If not, then you succeeded.

But if she says no, then awkward friendship.
She usually sticks to my side, even when her relatives or other friends are around, and she makes skin contact with me constantly.

If someone is making fun of me, she snaps on them before I do. And we're frequently at each other's houses. tbh, I can't tell if she's just an extremely close friend, or is flirting with me.

I need a girl perspective, call Rosie please.

It's already awkward because you've developed feelings for her. You don't just stop at one point, it sticks around and you'll always wonder, "What if?" Save yourself the trouble and just get it out in the open so that you know whether to pursue or to stop.

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But if she says no, then awkward friendship.
She usually sticks to my side, even when her relatives or other friends are around, and she makes skin contact with me constantly.

If someone is making fun of me, she snaps on them before I do. And we're frequently at each other's houses. tbh, I can't tell if she's just an extremely close friend, or is flirting with me.

I need a girl perspective, call Rosie please.

That sounds like she is trying to get close to you... Take the hint and ask her out... Man up walk over to her and ask her to go somewhere she likes (hopefully you would know that by now... Hell she may even have hinted it a couple times too)... You will know how much she likes you by how long it takes her to get ready for that date

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It's already awkward because you've developed feelings for her. You don't just stop at one point, it sticks around and you'll always wonder, "What if?" Save yourself the trouble and just get it out in the open so that you know whether to pursue or to stop.

This right here pretty much fixes the problem entirely.

Go out with her, or don't and get over it. None of this in between stuff.

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This right here pretty much fixes the problem entirely.

Go out with her, or don't and get over it. None of this in between stuff.

Cruel and Sacred are le right. There's also the fact that getting it out in the open just feels like a weight lifted off your shoulders.

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How To Forget your Ex!

Why. Why is this in existence.

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Cruel and Sacred are le right. There's also the fact that getting it out in the open just feels like a weight lifted off your shoulders.



Why. Why is this in existence.

You can't handle the cage.

The cage works best when someone gets a new phone and doesn't know your number and get all your friends in on it... Just spam Nicholas Cage memes... I mean alot of them... I sent 40 different ones in the course of a week and made for the best time trolling that friend

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You can't handle the cage.

I'm not entirely sure that I want to try and handle the cage.

Hey guys I'm back. I'm having trouble sleeping and it's relationship related so here I go again.

When we last left off on my last post, I told you guys about how I came back into contact with the chick who I've felt stronger feelings towards more than any other girl I've met. Even though she lived in Alabama, me and her understood we still liked each other. And she also flung this news on me that she would move back in a year. I started worrying because a lot can happen in a year and I'm VERY used to things not working out for me. But she kept assuring me that I had to have faith.

Well, now this last week has happened. I know I'm gonna sound like a bitch, but we've had little to no communication for the past seven days. I've tried texting her and talking to her throughout the day like normal and she just hasn't been there as much. A few days ago I asked to talk to her on the phone and checked in to make sure everything was okay because I know she's a thinker and maybe she could've started distancing herself again like she did the first time. She started going on about how she's too scared to get attached and that she wasn't so sure she could visit this Summer or that I could visit her and that there's a chance she might not move back and just yadda yadda yadda. Exactly what I told her what I was fearing. Well I like this chick, okay? So I started assuring her why she shouldn't worry about that stuff in which she responded with, "This is why I like you."

But ever since then she's been not talking to me. I don't want to get into it or anything, but I have to stress to you guys how often we were talking before and how much we enjoyed every second of it. No bullshit like me pretending or falsely believing she enjoyed it. Just straight happiness from our talks and how happy we made each other. And she would go out of her way to message me because she was excited to hear from me. Then seven days ago, just out of nowhere, she just stops trying. It's freaking me out. So much so I'm restless and can't sleep.

Reading this I'm sure you guys are like, "What a cling." But seriously you guys need to have seen how we acted towards each other even the day before this started happening. I'm afraid she's pulling what she did the first time and let her thoughts get clouded, and then without consulting me just acted on her emotions and is now distancing herself from me to make this all easier. Which in my opinion is absolutely fucked up because she admitted the first time around it was a huge mistake, I have no clue what could be pressing her to do it again. I can't see someone I get along with better and don't understand how she'd be content with just leaving this behind a second time around after all the promises and things we said to each other.

/vent

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Hey guys I'm back. I'm having trouble sleeping and it's relationship related so here I go again.

When we last left off on my last post, I told you guys about how I came back into contact with the chick who I've felt stronger feelings towards more than any other girl I've met. Even though she lived in Alabama, me and her understood we still liked each other. And she also flung this news on me that she would move back in a year. I started worrying because a lot can happen in a year and I'm VERY used to things not working out for me. But she kept assuring me that I had to have faith.

Well, now this last week has happened. I know I'm gonna sound like a bitch, but we've had little to no communication for the past seven days. I've tried texting her and talking to her throughout the day like normal and she just hasn't been there as much. A few days ago I asked to talk to her on the phone and checked in to make sure everything was okay because I know she's a thinker and maybe she could've started distancing herself again like she did the first time. She started going on about how she's too scared to get attached and that she wasn't so sure she could visit this Summer or that I could visit her and that there's a chance she might not move back and just yadda yadda yadda. Exactly what I told her what I was fearing. Well I like this chick, okay? So I started assuring her why she shouldn't worry about that stuff in which she responded with, "This is why I like you."

But ever since then she's been not talking to me. I don't want to get into it or anything, but I have to stress to you guys how often we were talking before and how much we enjoyed every second of it. No bullshit like me pretending or falsely believing she enjoyed it. Just straight happiness from our talks and how happy we made each other. And she would go out of her way to message me because she was excited to hear from me. Then seven days ago, just out of nowhere, she just stops trying. It's freaking me out. So much so I'm restless and can't sleep.

Reading this I'm sure you guys are like, "What a cling." But seriously you guys need to have seen how we acted towards each other even the day before this started happening. I'm afraid she's pulling what she did the first time and let her thoughts get clouded, and then without consulting me just acted on her emotions and is now distancing herself from me to make this all easier. Which in my opinion is absolutely fucked up because she admitted the first time around it was a huge mistake, I have no clue what could be pressing her to do it again. I can't see someone I get along with better and don't understand how she'd be content with just leaving this behind a second time around after all the promises and things we said to each other.

/vent

You're not going to like what I have to say. But you need to let this girl go. If she is repeating her own previous mistakes, then there is no point in you acting. Whats going to happen? She realizes its a mistake AGAIN and you two get back together AGAIN, and then she goes through the same cycle AGAIN?

This will be a very hard decision for you to make, but you need to end this. It isn't your fault, and it isn't hers. But this is too much aggravation for any relationship.