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Well as I said I wasn't planning on going to prom, but over this last weekend a couple friends of mine grouped and all were talking about getting a table when out of nowhere they told me to sit with them. I asked them if they knew I wasn't going to prom and they told me I was as if I had no choice. So after talking with my parents about how much they've always wanted me to experience it, I convinced them to pay for all of it. So honestly in the end I'm not losing anything so who knows.

But I'm not gonna bring my girlfriend. I know that sounds bad, but there are some complications we'd have to get over that I don't think would work.

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Lmao, you will be the awkward guy sitting in the corner while all your friends dance with their girls. That was me at my friends party, I sat there with the dog for two hours...lol

Quote from Sacred

ORRRRRR some other girl that isn't with anybody will bump into me and we'll start dancing. Then I meet someone new. :)

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Being friend zoned is the result of a lack of confidence. Not a lack of good looks. If you beam confidence and a girl still holds something against you because of your looks, then you didn't want to date her anyway.

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Dude, girls like bold guys. Ones that aren't scared to put themselves out there and take risks. It's not a douchebag thing, it's a confidence thing that anyone can respect or be jealous of. You should literally sit next to her without an actual good reason. If she asks why you aren't sitting next to your friend, just tell her you'd rather talk to her. Honestly just go for it man. It's way better to pursue what you want and find out it's not worth it, as compared to sitting back and being stuck obsessing over something that can potentially be wasting your time.

Honestly, the girls I've formed things with in the past have told me the thing that honestly got them was not how cute I was, but just how much I put myself out there. If a girl doesn't like you after that, she's definitely not worth it bro.

Here, I'll give a perfect example. A few days ago one of my friends who was a girl informed me that her friend thought I was attractive. We scheduled a double date (one of my guy friends went with the friend that informed me) and met at the movies. I saw the girl and she was cute and she would look at me from time to time but honestly wasn't putting a lot of attention towards me since she was more or less just talking with her friends. Well only about five minutes after I introduce myself, we go into the theaters and I plop myself down right next to her. I pulled down both my arm rests and then I stop myself and say out loud "Wait a minute!" She turned to look at me, and I pulled up the arm rest between the two of us and said, "This isn't supposed to be here!" She laughed and smile. I looked her dead in the eyes for maybe about two seconds. No joke, we just started making out right on the spot and did not stop until the movie ended. Last night I asked her why she made out with me only 5 minutes after knowing me, and she said she's met cute guys before, but none of them really did anything about it when they finally met her. I was a different case because I actually had a personality and confidence. Wallah!

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Lol its true....But douchebags usually have confidence. Hence the stereotype of women being automatically attracted to assholes.

Quote from Exilement

Confidence is attractive, but no one thinks "wow, that guy seems like such an asshole, I think I'm in love!".

That's you trying to rationalize the fact that you aren't getting any by making it everyone else's fault. "I'm such a great guy, but girls just want to date douchebags, so that's why they want nothing to do with me".

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Cruel, you're starting to step into the shoes of the Nice Guy. I implore you to step back and just bone the damn bitch

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I hate being nice, but im cursed with it. I have always had way too much compassion. It sucks, and I am not saying that as if I were a saint. I just have always had a soft spot for people who never had a father though....and well, she doesn't.

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Well, you are Cruel, afterall, so it suits you.