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Jun 28, 2013 12:00 PM #1021734

Not alot of people bully me anymore, but about 3-4 months back, I was bullied by the whole majority of the school. EMOTIONALLY. I used to get so mad, my face turned red and I exploded, trying to curse them out, but after every sentence, they would laugh even more. I delt with that for 3 years straight.

How I delt with it? Here's how.
I go to a school from kindergarten to the 12th grade. I stood up late one night to figure out revenge plan, writing it in my private notebook, I had completed the plan. I had planned to destroy them emotionally.

The next day, the morning started off with torment. One of them confronted me and started making fun of me. I took his words and switched them around, and backfired it. I started talking about stuff that is true at the same time. I did also say stuff that reminded them of bad memories. Some of them even started crying. I did the same with other bullies. Every time they bullied me I would constantly destroy them.

Therefore, now no one bullies me anymore :D

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Jun 28, 2013 12:32 PM #1021746

I've been bullied a lot over the years, but I've always been calm about it and never let it bother me. People bullied me because I gained quite a bit of weight in secondary school which caused for a lot of little nick names here and there. I was never 'big' in the past, it kind of happened after I lost all my friends from my previous school, I had no reason to go outside because I had no one to play with; so for a solid 3 years my life was nothing but playing video games and drinking soda and needless to say I packed on the weight big time ;_; I was 14 years old and weighed around 13 and a half stone and as much as I pretended that the bullying didn't bother me it still did, so I decided to do something about it, for the past 4 months I've been running everyday, haven't touched a soda and now I've lost 2 and a half stone and needless to say the nick names have stopped, all of it stopped.

Another thing that happened recently, I was playing Football or Soccer and there was this guy; he was always being so rude to everyone who played and whenever someone bigger than him stood up to him he would back down and apologize, but then continue doing it. I had enough of it, the next day when we where playing I was in goal and someone scored against me. He then rudely replied "If you're not going to play then get the F*uck out of the game!" I said shortly after, "Excuse me?" he then walked over to me, pushed me and repeated what he had just said (this clearly being because everyone in my school knowing of my non violent past, I have always been peaceful and never got into a fight.) So I punched the little guy in the face and he crawled off crying, after that everyone was congratulating me for doing what they had all been dreaming of doing to the guy since day one.

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Jun 28, 2013 12:45 PM #1021754

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Some of them even started crying.

legit af

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Jun 28, 2013 12:52 PM #1021759

I never was really BULLIED. and anyone that did i got in fights with. So I can't really say I've been continuously bullied ever, but i have heard of it and I have friends that have been very badly bullied to the point where they almost committed suicide, so for me bullying is a serious thing. I don't really see any point in bullies because they have their own shortcomings as well, everyone does. If you exploited their shortcomings they would in turn become the bullied person, so it's almost like a cycle. You get bullied to the point that you become the bully, and then you bully another person until they become the bully. Sometimes, there are people that deal with it different ways, but I've seen alot of what I just said. Therefore, i highly doubt bullying will ever stop existing because everyone wants to feel good about themselves by downing another.

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Jun 28, 2013 12:52 PM #1021760

Back in the day I was a part a forum. There was a really abusive moderator (he got banned but is long gone) who had it out for me because I wouldn't take his shit. He would purposely stalk my profile and find any little thing he could to give me infraction. To the point where he would give me infractions just for posting on people stuff and appraising them even though the thread for weeks old. Needless to say I left and last I checked that douche is gone and my account is fine. I love karma.

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Jun 28, 2013 12:56 PM #1021764

Well, I'm not being bullied and not a bullier (Sometimes) but I take it lightly that way.
And if I'm bullied, I take revenge and bullied them. Bl

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Jun 28, 2013 5:17 PM #1021931

From the age of 7 to 14 I was bullied, it was very traumatic for me, I was pushed, stabbed with pencils, kicked, jumped and punched, at first I blamed myself, I almost killed myself for it so the pain can stop. It took me till the age of 8 to realize that it had to stop. At the age of 12 I took the upper hand and brought a knife to school. They tried jumping me so I stabbed one of them. After that I got suspended from school. I later returned with a new sense of my life. I became more self aware of bullies. I decide to learn martial arts. If I could beat them before they beat me I would be safe. It worked until I came to Florida and I broke a kids arm for touching me. I later started to defend others too, just because I did not want them to suffer like I did, even today I still think about my life and everyone around me if I killed myself that day, but I didn't and I'm happy for that. But even to this day I still hate being touched, even by my own family

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Jun 29, 2013 1:07 PM #1022446

The middle school I went to was never a good influence on me. There were kids who were only in 5th grade calling each other 'niggas' and pointing middle fingers at each other. And 6th grade wasn't any better. Everywhere I went, I heard people talking about dicks and vaginas. But it just amazes me unorganized the school is, and THAT school was supposed to be the best school in the district! The fuck?! And to top that off, I got bullied a lot while I was over there. But I only got bullied because I wasn't keeping my comments to myself. And I should understand just to not put myself into a bad situation as much as possible, whether it's me making a sarcastic joke, or just engaging with dumbass who punches you in the face without thinking about what the hell he's doing. My advice that you should just shut your mouth and don't talk much if you don't want to get bullied, and if they make fun of what you do, then just smile and laugh. Because you know that those bullies aren't even that smart.

And at one point in my life, I was thought to have autism. While my childhood was mostly filled with me having temper tantrums, I didn't know if I had autism. Plus, there was a point in my life where I didn't speak for an entire year. My mom never told me that and I never knew that happened to me before. After many years, I started becoming more mature and less grumpy. But the thought of having autism is strange, since I'm a pretty social guy and I have a lot of friends back in Texas. But do I have autism? I don't know, but at least I'm not that immature anymore.

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Jun 30, 2013 5:56 AM #1022957

Well, primary school and the starting of high school were hellish for me. Middle school and high school after the first few years were okay (still not great/perfect or anything, I but got by). I have been bullied quite a lot, but only because I was what you might call the class clown. I loved to make people laugh, and hence people used to mess with me as much as they could to make me look as foolish as possible. That in turn turned into some pretty aggressive bullying. So yeah I was a victim of this for quite some time, and I gotta say, it's never EVER going to completely disappear. There's literally no way, unless you get into the minds of children and manually shape their personality, morals and perspective of life.

Another reason it's not possible for it to be gone is because some (or most in some places) bullying stems from how their parenting has been, and how their family life is. The world is never going have only the 'perfect' or 'ideal' families/parents to mold children into perfect Supermanish human beings and hence kids will be subject to a variety of things that will make them bully other kids. It doesn't necessarily have to be something totally bad. It could be that a kid's parents are rich as fuck and that kid is spoilt so he/she could think that they're superior to everyone else, and could treat others in that way looking at how they live and how other kids live. So again, bullying will never, (yeah that's right; NEVER) stop existing. Sadly enough.

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Jul 1, 2013 9:13 AM #1023671

Well...

Today, My school started an Anti-Bullying Program. :/

Nothing much changes actually. Since bullying was only reported 1-5 times a week in my school :/

I sometimes wonder what drives this bullies to bully other people.

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Jul 1, 2013 10:31 AM #1023700

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I sometimes wonder what drives this bullies to bully other people.

Bullying is a very satisfying act for the offenders. Since being a bully gains you a power position, it makes those people feel powerful. Not only that, but bullying others sometimes is a way for them to unleash their pain onto someone else. It isn't so surprising to see so many bullies out there.

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Jul 1, 2013 2:15 PM #1023791

Quote from DigitalFlamer105
Well...

Today, My school started an Anti-Bullying Program. :/

Nothing much changes actually. Since bullying was only reported 1-5 times a week in my school :/

I sometimes wonder what drives this bullies to bully other people.

Why would someone want to report that they 'can't stand up for themselves'? Just because it's only reported a few times a week doesn't mean it doesn't happen much more often. Most sexual assaults go unreported as well.

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Jul 1, 2013 2:29 PM #1023797

I always was an easy target because of my disability. Until I decided not to run away and fight back once.

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Jul 1, 2013 3:38 PM #1023843

Nice thread, Hewitt.

I, myself, used to be bullied all the time when I was younger. Always being the "midget" kid who would smile whenever talking to a friend, and crying when others would make fun of me. I was usually classified as the "nerdy little asian who you could probably cheat off of in class". This when on for some time, until high school came along. Finally deciding enough, was enough, I adopted a cold, uncaring demeanor. Though I will occasionally smile (towards my close nit group of friends), I am now mostly seen as a person who lacks emotions, and does not take any crap from anyone. Violence is not my thing, but my evil eye is legendary at my school.

I have no idea if bullying as a whole has had a positive effect on my life, but at least I have the ability to cope with it. You might see me raging sometimes on IRC or other threads on stickpage. That is just me venting out my frustrations about how other individuals seem, in my opinion, to share characteristics of my past bullies. Excessant use of curse words, trying to exert their dominance on a topic, and overall insensitivity towards others leads me to voice my hatred, often causing to me getting infracted.

For those of you who knew me back on FA (specifically the little LS group I was part of in the beginning), I was much more sociable, happy, and joking. Once I hit high school, you could, sadly, see a lot of change. I am just glad that there are still people I can count on and talk to when I am having a rough time (especially you, Cami-chan).

But yeah, that's my bully-story for everyone. Thanks again Hewitt for making this thread. It feels nice to talk about my experiences.