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Jun 24, 2014 11:56 AM #1210570

Age is an illusion. Since the entire concept of time was likely thought out by humans, it isn't exactly real in a universal sense.
Humans are just advanced animals, and our age is just our stage in growth. Just like a whale. We are advanced whales.

Dating her shouldn't be a problem. Just for God's sake, cruel

Please don't stick it in.

Then again, i'm almost 17 and still haven't even held a basic conversation with girls who aren't my friends, so what do I know about relationships.

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Jun 24, 2014 12:03 PM #1210572

Age is very very real.
Eventually you will get old and then die. If you don't die young, that is.
Time is a concept from man. But even time is linked to the real, as we don't even fully understand it.

Anyways, I don't disagree with them having sex despite their age difference. But society doesn't see it that way, so it's very much in his best interest not to have sex with her. Unless he's suddenly interested in prison time.

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Jun 24, 2014 12:12 PM #1210574

If a 15 year old girl walked up to me and asked for a date, age would be the second thing on my mind.

A girl just asked me out. And it wasn't a bet she lost.

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Jun 24, 2014 12:34 PM #1210583

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Dear chimaera, he whose been around since before I've been around.

What is your mystery? Where from do you draw your magical powers, SPP patriot?

I'm summoned when someone slaughters a goat whilst chanting in Latin and the dawn of the summer solstice.

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Jun 24, 2014 1:18 PM #1210590

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So I was talking to this girl at this youth group i was dragged to by a friend, and we started texting and she seemed pretty cool. Then she admitted to liking me, and i went with it and said i liked her back. We agreed to hang out some time this week and consider it a first date. I told the friend who brought me to the group about it, and apparently the girl is only 15 despite looking significantly older. I turned 18 last month. I mean the age gap wouldn't be an issue if she was 18 and i was 21, but i'd rather not be charged as a pedophile if anything were to go wrong with this.

So now i need a way to cancel a date and not talk to her again without seeming like an asshole.

So you're struggling with look like a pedophile to the whole world, or look like an asshole to just one girl. Why is that a tough choice?

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Jun 24, 2014 1:39 PM #1210596

An 18 year old being attracted to a 15 year old who looks older than her age isn't pedophilia.

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Jun 24, 2014 1:43 PM #1210597

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An 18 year old being attracted to a 15 year old who looks older than her age isn't pedophilia.

If it isn't pedophilia, then why does it turn me on so much?

Seriously though, I concur with Charry. Certain social lines are put in place for reasons beyond our control, whether we like it or not. Cruel needs to decide whether or not to cross it to avoid looking like a douche to ONE girl who may or may not even like him that much.

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Jun 24, 2014 2:30 PM #1210615

We also need to remember that if Cruel manages to not look like a douche then he is lying to her.

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Jun 24, 2014 2:33 PM #1210617

Cruel, send pics pls :)

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Jun 24, 2014 2:42 PM #1210620

You all talk about sex.... and I'm here, 19 years old a not even a kiss.

Please tell me that the teenagers are the ones rushing their sexual lives.

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Jun 24, 2014 2:44 PM #1210621

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Cruel, send pics pls :)

Never change, Smile.

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You all talk about sex.... and I'm here, 19 years old a not even a kiss.

Please tell me that the teenagers are the ones rushing their sexual lives.

You'll probably be glad later that you didn't rush into things. That way when you're 24, you can go into full sex-machine-beast mode the way God intended.

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Jun 24, 2014 2:45 PM #1210622

Sex is pretty great whenever, but I've heard that some people have something called "eemoh-shuns" which can somehow make sex painful? Or something? I don't really understand it, but it's worth making sure you're not one of the people who's going to be affected.

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Jun 24, 2014 2:45 PM #1210623

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You all talk about sex.... and I'm here, 19 years old a not even a kiss.

Please tell me that the teenagers are the ones rushing their sexual lives.

*Indirectly telling all horny males in the forums to come to me but I'll reject them all anyway*

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Jun 24, 2014 2:47 PM #1210626

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*Indirectly telling all horny males in the forums to come to me but I'll reject them all anyway*

Not like they'll come to chile and ask me to go out.

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Jun 24, 2014 2:48 PM #1210628

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You all talk about sex.... and I'm here, 19 years old a not even a kiss.

I feel you, sister. I feel you. *hugs*
Kind of ignore them, still enjoying my life and personal academic problems normally so far.