I don't think intellegence is genetics, if so, then why would I be at school?
It's scientifically proven there are genes related to how intelligent we are. Obviously, you can't attribute it all to that, a lot of it comes down to how much you learn / try. For instance someone who's a dropout will not be intelligent as someone who actually tries to learn. However, someone who learns but their genes aren't as intelligent as someone else who does the same amount of learning, might turn out fractionally less intelligent.
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note I don't know much about this, I'm no scientist. But I
do know there are genes that can determine intelligence of newborns.
Children only keep their parents as role models until they become teens which is when they care more about peer pressure than what their parents think.
How does this relate to the argument about free will? The argument goes that decisions are based off a multicomplex chain of occurances leading up to the decision point. Nowhere does it say that these have to be based off the parent. I used this as an example to explain the theory. I feel you're not providing any counter-arguments to what I've said.
Your baby example is okay, but I think it would be better to just talk about "Training a Dog" I say this because you can praise and scold a dog thus molding them into what you want them to be. Say the dog pees in the house, and you scold him for that. The next day the dog really has to go to pee again, he knows he will get scolded for doing so in the house but what are his other options? He will pee in the house again because the needs of your body come before the needs of your mind, if you don't believe me check out Maslow's Hieiarchy of Needs.
Again, this doesn't disprove the argument. All it shows is that his decision to pee in the house goes against the scolding, and with good reason, but that doesn't show free will. You could equally say he did this because his body is telling him to go to the toilet, so based off what he knows about going to the toilet, his body responds by choosing the immediate relief over the potential scolding to follow. If you've gota pee, you've gota pee.